Peggy, thank you for your story. It made me cry and smile together!!
Barbara, excellent work as always, from an incredible and ethical woman. May I ask a favor -- could you fix the In Conclusion section please? I want to send your article to a relative, but the ending is confusing (you mention a post by "Wendy" but there is no post by Wendy, and then Jman's post, although excellent, is very long and not indented, so to the reader it appears after a while to be your own words, and yet he is talking as very much a current JW so it's clearly not you.) My advice would be to differentiate the quotes somehow, and then conclude and sign off as yourself at the end?
Sorry to be critical, but I hope it's constructive.