Is it worth it to give a very good massage to your significant other?
by asilentone 16 Replies latest social relationships
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BurnTheShips
Absolutely.
Start with deep tissue on all the stressed out parts on the back. Do the feet. Alternate with light caresses. Let healing love flow through your touch.
But don't forget the happy ending. That's the best part.
BTS
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zoiks
Yes. Daily foot rubs at the minimum.
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MMXIV
Leave the happy ending for the second massage - create a bit of suspense - tantric style
MMXIV
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THE GLADIATOR
I don't have a significant other - just the one wife.
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snowbird
Is Tantric related to the Kama Sutra?
Sylvia
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Terry
I don't have a significant other - just the one wife.
You is one funny guy!
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Men are crappy at giving a massage, for the most part. Let's face it.
Men don't know the first thing about touching a woman without grabbing their own genitals at the same time.
Men have to be trained by women to know how to do anything worth doing!
For some reason, most mothers neglect to humanize their sons and teach them to wash their hands, put the toilet seat down, pay respect to older people, let ladies go first or think of others beyond their own needs.
Young men grow up thinking the most important aspect of women is getting something from them!
Men have created a thousand derogatory ways of referring to ladies and another couple of hundred ways of mistreating them.
Usually (not always or absolutely) men are really nice to a lady.........if they want something in return! And that is a learned habit of mind.
No, it takes a good woman to break the habits of abuse and re-train boyfriends and husbands to become something resembling a human being.
A massage has to be done with conviction, tenderness and commitment with no other end in mind that relaxing their partner.
Instead, most men massage a woman the way a frisky cat massages a catnip mouse before sinking their claws in for the "kill."
Massages are best left to the professionals!
That's one man's opinion. Your mileage may vary.
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The Finger
My wife doesn't like to be touched. (It's a fun life.)
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TD
--99 times out of 100 it is.
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Elsewhere
So long as it has a Happy Ending.