I think the mindset you're in when you believe it tends to convince you that that's not possible--even if the householder knows more than you, he or she can't know more than "the Society".
But I do admit, running into an atheist guy who had his thoughts in order and presented them quite rationally left a big impression on me. I felt totally unprepared because I realized, I've not researched any of these issues. All I've got is the Reasoning book, which quotes from other outside books that I've never read for myself. How do I know it's right? In the back of my mind, I wanted to find the books quoted by the Reasoning book. This, I eventually did. Here I am.