Last year I gave the memorial talk, this year for the first time in my entire life I won't even be going.
I guess that missing the memorial will definitely put us on the elder's radar, so I am expecting the elders to be concerned an interrogation.
I was going to use the excuse that I will be in a different part of country, but I won't be and I will be at work with at least 3 other JW's in a neighbouring congregation.