Thank you for the 'welcome', Stephen. It is so great to have a forum that allows for free-wheeling, respectful discussion:"A smoking wick he will not extinguish, a bruised reed he will not break".
So true, Blondie, who of ex-JWs DO post here? I didn't know about this site until two days ago. Often a person is so beaten up spiritually that they even have trouble praying or talking to others about the trauma of rejection by their 'god-community'. I know that was the case with my second oldest daughter. In fact, the last site she would visit would be one that had the words 'Jehovahs Witnesses' in it.
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A prevailing thought running through the posts is this--If the Witnesses used the bible so extensively and they were so wrong, it must follow that the Bible is as corrupt as their leadership.
Here are the things that awe can consider as distinct possibilities from the faith-warping doctrines of not only the Witnesses but of all organized religion's destructive imprint concerning our ability to listen to God--as individuals:
1. A Mennonite Christian named Jenny Duskey in the 70's wrote a short, powerful piece titled: "The Bible Is Not the Word of God". What was her chief reference? The Bible. She made the point that the OT was never considered 'The Word of God' as though it was a clear mirror into the Father's head. They are refered to as the Writings, the Scriptures (For instance, the opening words of Matt. 19, Jesus distinguishies between what Moses allowed and what God prefered regarding marriage.) She points out that Jesus is called the Logos an idea that is not simply translated as "Word" in English-- a significant idea if we wish to apprehend who God is and how we would respond to Him and our brothers and sisters here on the earth.
2. Organized religion cannot possibly fulfill the commission to Teach others how to be reconciled to God because being reconciled to God means we no longer have any religious organization mediating between us. Jesus is our only "Leader" Matthew 23:10, He is our only mediator. ANY RELIGIOUS ORGANIZATION MANAGES THE MESSAGE SO TIGHTLY THAT IN THE END THERRE IS NO GENUINE CONVERSATION WITH GOD.
Read the Gospels and review the possibility that we are called to a great measure of personal responsibility in our interaction with God and his Son. In the middle of Mark 9 Jesus tells John that the disciple's sense of clubbish exclusivity was off-base. Jesus told him not to "prevent" a man who was casting out demons in Jesus' name but who was not following with their group. This scripture was NEVER examined in the 21+ years I attended meetings with the JWs.
3. Ask yourself did Jesus come to start a new mob rule? The early converts like the Jailer and his family in Acts 16 commenced Christian life with nothing more than a night's instruction and a midnight baptism. To make a diligent effort to uphold their profession of faith in the Lord Jesus it would seem that they had a basic--very basic-- introduction but then were left to the Holy Spirit to aid them in the subsequent days.
Finally, isn't it true that we will have to stand or fall on our own even if we do meet to discuss and explore the availible information concerning God? "Where ever two or three are gathered together in my name there I am in the midst of them." How wonderful that fellowship is. As for disfellowshipping? We don't have to eat or play with any who are abusive of Jesus. But this should not be done as the JWs do it. Their entire process from our induction at baptism into the "Spirit anointed organization" makes our prosecutable offenses to include offenses against the organization--but not necessarily against God.
These are just things that I've reflected on. Good to hear from everyone.