I can't get it up...what do I do!

by gilwarrior 21 Replies latest social relationships

  • gilwarrior
    gilwarrior

    This is rather embarrassing to say, but I have a problem. The three times I have had sex I have noticed that I can't get aroused by normal penetration. Only oral sex will do it. I just want to know is this normal? It is a physical or mental problem? Is there anything I can do to correct this problem? I have been rather nervous right before so that could be it, but I am not sure. What do I do?

  • Sky
    Sky

    get a girl that loves you, it's stand to attention....
    ;)
    Sky

  • Mister Biggs
    Mister Biggs

    I think for most of us men all it takes is a gust of strong wind!

    So many stupid people, so few comets! :o)

  • jayhawk1
    jayhawk1

    Gil, I wish I had some advice for you, but I don't have that kind of problem. Mine is the opposite, there are times I can't get it to go back down. Wait a minute, my problem is really not a problem.

    Perhaps you need to seek a doctor for advice, if the problem continues.

    Is this a light saber in my pocket or am I just happy to see you?

    "Hand me that whiskey, I need to consult the spirit."-J.F. Rutherford

  • jolly_green_giant
    jolly_green_giant

    are you on any anti-deppressants? i know from experience that they can mess up things down there.

    if not than i wouldnt be too worried about it, some guys only like oral.

  • Mindchild
    Mindchild

    Dude...your penis is your most honest organ. Listen to what it is telling you. You posted awhile back about having some emotional reluctance to have sex without a relationship...well slap me silly, I wonder if this could have anything to do with things? You might only be getting turned on by BJ's as that might mean nasty sex to you, which of course is exicting. You might want to invest some time and effort into reading up on human sexuality. I suggest you go to the nearest B&N or other good bookstore and spend a few days in the "SEX" section.

    Kind Regards,

    Skipper

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    How about 2 popsicle sticks and a roll of tape.LOL..(Sorry,I`m just in a humourus mood.)...OUTLAW

  • gilwarrior
    gilwarrior

    OUTLAW, you are hilarious!

  • SYN
    SYN

    Two words: Cock Ring.

    Never fails.

    But please, get the right size...otherwise you will be in a world of hurt and clamped blood vessels.

    Probably you are just nervous or something. Putting on a Batman suit should make you feel a bit better :)

    "I see no good reasons why the views given in this volume should shock the religious sensibilities of anyone." -- Charles Darwin, The Origin Of Species, 1869.

  • butalbee
    butalbee

    Baby, I could remedy this problem of yours in a heart beat, what you need is a girl who knows how to turn a man on.

    SYN--Do you have a cock ring??????????

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