LOLnice way to turn it around friend. *shaking head in disbelief at this one*
I'm glad you saw that. It seemed to me that you were intentionally misreading my words, so I chose to intentionally misread yours. I'm glad you saw the tongue-in-cheek aspect. But as you were perhaps a little careless in your post, allowing me to misread it, I was perhaps a little careless in mine. Hopefully it will stand as a lesson to both of us to be more careful in how we phrase things in this potentially emotion-charged discussion.
Now then, isn't using the word "refusing" being just a bit of a drama queen? Have you seen alot of inner city kids at the age of 6 or 7 saying "uhnh uh, ain' no way I gonna talks proper, an you kint makes me... das right, I refuse to learns"? Or do they just refuse in their heart, like Sarah?
I don't think I'm exagerrating. I'm not going to give you the whole "some of my best friends..." speech, but my closest friend for the past 15 years is black. We're closer than I've ever been with my fleshly brothers. Our ability to discuss
anything dispassionately, in addition to growing up in an 80% black community for most of my life, has given me a good deal of exposure to this issue and others. That doesn't make me an expert, (which is why I was initially interested in reading some "expert" opinion on the issue) but it gives me enough experience and observation to form an opinion of my own.
That having been said, I do think it is often a "refusal" to learn standard english. Very often, there is immense peer pressure on young people to fit in. Someone caught speaking "too proper" is called a "sell-out", "wannabe", etc... Many of my friends (and myslef to a much lesser degree) could speak the Queen's English at the Kingdom Hall or the workplace, and use all the most current slang when hanging out with friends. But my friends would lament the fact that their younger brothers or sisters would be teased so much at school if they slipped up and used "proper" english. This is what I think often leads young people (black/white/brown/yellow/red, etc...) to "refusing" to learn proper grammar.
This would be perfectly fine in a social setting, but when these kids go on a job interview and find themselves unable (or unwilling through some mis-placed sense of pride or community) to speak proper english--and thus appear under-educated, that's what I find sad. Is it the interviewer's fault that he automatically associates slang and non-standard grammar with a lack of education or inability to learn? Maybe. But how is he to know? It kind of defeats the purpose of interviews, doesn't it?
Language is fluid like a muthafucka. You can spend time worrying about whether that is good or bad, but that is all you are going to do about it.
I agree completely. Since language is so fluid (and contemperary american slang
much more so than the "official language") I'm interested in the static African grammatical underpinnings, if they exist.
I have no problem with slang. But I think it's irresponsible for school systems to not do their best to give young children all the tools they'll need to survive and prosper in modern society. Maybe the Brits have a superior system of driving (on the other side of the road) but it would be foolish to allow them to come to the US and not insist that they learn the "proper" way to drive here. It has absolutely nothing to do with the legitimacy of driving on the left.
To give a language example: I went to France a few years ago. My friends were very frustrated that they couldn't speak French. They blamed the French for not speaking English, and generally let it ruin their trip. I, on the other hand, realized that I was in a country that spoke a certain language, and that if I wanted to get around, I wasn't going to be able to demand that they cater to my lack of knowledge. I had a great time struggling through french phrases, watching the young woman on the Metro (who was gorgeous) struggle to keep from laughing as I tried to strike up a conversation with her. (By the way, the French words for "Christian" and "dog" are very similar.)
I'm not saying it can't be educated out of them, but I'm very doubtful if it makes sense to make that the target of said education. Many black people end up able to speak more than one type of english.
Agreed, "many black people..." but what about those who don't learn? Should we excuse it and say they simply speak a different dialect and let them fall through the cracks of the educational system?
This discussion is really here nor there, beyond two people sharing their opinions, and has gotten off track. My first post was asking for resources that could tell me upon what African sounds and languages ebonics was based.
Hmmm
PS yrs2long: I'll have you know that Teejay is happily married (I, on the other hand, am gloriously single).