The “cool” brothers that I knew either left the Borg as soon as they could, or married the cute no-brains giggly sister.
I was living on my own from the age of 19, so I was a pretty independent kind of woman, which I’m sure turned off quite a few bros because I had a mind and was not afraid to use it.
There was one guy who I had a major crush on, but he wasn’t interested in me. He was a pioneer although that wasn’t why I liked him. I just thought he was HOT! He eventually got df’d for fornication (a total man whore) so he was off the market.
There were some guys I knew who were only interested in pioneer sisters and as I wasn’t interested in pioneering, I wasn’t in the running.
The rest? Most were geeks, socially inept or just personality wise, incapable of getting my interest.