Mental Health

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  • yeldell2
    yeldell2

    To Whom This May Concern:

    I suffer from chronic osteoarthritis and have had one hip replace-
    ment surgery and am waiting a second next month. From reading found
    that arthritis (with all the chronic pain) causes depression in the
    mind. Couple that with menopause and I ended up having to be taken
    to our local mental health facility here in town. My children, who
    are 17 and 18 and unbaptized contacted local police almost seven
    months ago, who tried conventional methods to reach me - all to no
    avail. I had become paranoid and extremely untrustful. Finally, I
    was taken to the hospital by force, although there was no struggle.
    My oldest son, baptized at 14, now 27, has strayed from the truth
    because he left home at 17, fascinated by "worldly ways," while I
    continued raising my other two children alone. Point is, while the
    other two children, unbaptized, are very much into the world, they
    were raised in the truth and although do as they please, remember
    their upbringing. Being ill, I'm crippled, and have been away from
    meetings at the hall for over a year, although I keep in touch with
    our presiding overseer and he is aware of my condition.

    While undergoing the mental breakdown, thinking I was losing my mind,
    I had some doubts about my faith, brought about by my mental condition
    at the time. The "voices" in my head, have subsided somewhat, but
    built up all kinds of situations I was constantly thinking about as if
    they were actually happening. There were nights when I was so "crazy"
    in my head, that I prayed to Jehovah to help me to sleep and he did.
    I was on "committment" with the hospital and doctors staff, but am now
    off and although on disability, and off medication, I still have some
    ill effects and experience some hallucinations and irregular thought
    patterns, but for the most part, I am now fully aware of my surroundings and know what is going on. My neurologist says I have at least a 60 percent change of making a complete recovery. I never
    even knew I had arthritis until age 44 or 45 when the pain set in. Mine is congenital, inherited and if I pursued it could possibly be on
    disability for life. Many family members on my mother's side are afflicted with various osteo and rheumatoid too. It is discouraging
    to say the least. Surgery will cure my hips but my mind needs time.
    It is hard to concentrate on WT lessons when I read them, but easier
    to do so than last summer, when I suffered migraine headaches (for the
    first time in life), which became so severe, they resulted in a seizure episode (first one ever). It scared me to death because I had
    no idea what was happening to me.

    Would appreciate corresponding with other arthritics - sisters and
    brothers, who understand what it is like to have to deal with pain and
    the job uncertainties. Nothing is certain, except my reliance on
    Jehovah. Even my young children had sense enough to get mom help and
    no one knew what was going on, except they knew I was not responding
    as I normally would.

    Jehovah God, thank you for helping me raise them in the truth, even
    though they are not baptized. They are old enough to make their
    own decision, when I return to meetings, perhaps they will accompany
    me. I owe you my life and sanity...

    Hope this helps anyone out there to remain faithful. It has certainly
    helped me.

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  • larc
    larc

    Dear Yeldell2,

    It is tragic to be hit with a physical problem and a mental problem at the same time. I hope you stay in close touch with your doctor regarding your mental symptoms. If they remain or increase at all, you might be well adviced to go back on medication. It is pretty well known today that these symptoms are a result of a chemical imbalance in the brain, and are not a sign of lack of faith. You might ask your doctor for pamphlets that explain your condition to give to others if they don't understand. My mother was manic depressive. Her first episode occured when I was ten, and she had severe reoccurances about every 5 years until she got on lithium when I was 25. After that she was symptom free. She was a very zealous Witness and so was never deemed spiritually weak. However, some in the congregation may do this and suggest that more meetings and more field service is the answer. It is NOT the answer. Do what you can comfortabley, but don't feel pressured to do more than you can handle; that will only make matters worse. Although medication may be necessary, your prayers to Jehovah are certainly valuable too.

    I hope these words are of help to you.

  • ZazuWitts
    ZazuWitts

    Dear Yeldell2

    Very sorry to read of your physical and mental afflications - sending love and hugs to you - lots of them.

    I'm glad your children rallied around you when they realized you were not your usual self. Don't worry about them too much - they have to find their own way - and Jehovah loves us all - he is very forgiving...more than mere man can ever be. On days when the pain is great perhaps you could listen to some beautiful music - I once knew a women with your type of arthritis - and she said it "took the edge off the pain." It's certainly worth a try, right?

  • yeldell2
    yeldell2

    Larc,

    Thank you very much for replying. It is easier to know what is hap-
    pening when family members or someone you know suffers also. I am
    glad that your mother did not let her illness interfere with her wor-
    ship to Jehovah; and that she is feeling fine. I was on neurontin for
    about 3 months. It is an anti-convulsant. I began having headaches
    with the medication and decided that, perhaps, I had had enough. I
    have an appointment to see my psychiatrist from the facility in late
    January, when I will let him know. So far, I feel better without it,
    that is, no headaches. It is good that you were there and able to help your mother through her "rough times." Since not being at the
    meetings, I am not "up" on what is happening, the friends (when out in
    field service) sometimes come by. One sister told me that I would not
    believe the "mental changes" that many of the friends are undergoing
    in these last days - she was very comforting, as you have been, in
    letting me know that I am not alone with this. Because of menopause
    and the ability to bear children, and our menses, I believe that women
    are put under a lot of stress and that some of the mental difficulties
    that we experience later on in life, brings this on. It might be quite trying explaining this to a brother or having (elders) understand what is going on in the human mind. Throughout all my
    confusion, Jehovah kept me "safe," even though many times, I felt very
    alone and "crazy," in my head. In ancient times and not too long ago
    this breakdown in mental health was deemed as being "witchcraft," or
    women were thought to be possessed and put to death. What a horrible
    time, God's servants must have gone through back then. I could easily
    see where others would not know exactly what the problem was years ago. Even today, doctors are many times, stumped and have to try many
    medications (according to symptoms) until one is agreeable to the patient. All of this confuses a person, until the right kind of
    treatment is achieved. Men do seem to have a much easier time of things. Another reason, I can see why Jehovah uses them as elders and
    leaders among us, instead of women, as we are indeed, "the weaker
    vessel." Sorry to write so much, but I am just grateful to be able to
    reason clearly again. If it were not for Jehovah sending his holy angels to watch over me (mentally and physically) depresssion would
    totally take over.

    Thank you again Larc for understanding.

    Patricia

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  • yeldell2
    yeldell2

    Dear ZazuWitts:

    First of all, I love your name! Although now I listen to lots of music, when first stricken with depression, and after the seizure a
    year ago in 1999, I could not stand to hear tv, music or anything else. Sounds in my head were "amplified" - even ordinary street traffic or others carrying on conversation, sounded like someone
    changing stations on a radio. In my head, I felt like a "walking
    transistor radio," if there is such a thing left on the market today.

    I have children, my two teenagers, not in the truth. Therefore, I hear
    all types of music. Plus, my penchant for listening to the oldies,
    dusties are very soothing in contrast to the "hard backbeat," of some
    rap styles.

    Thank you for your concern. I appreciate your interest. Jehovah has
    helped me maintain my sanity. There is nothing too great for him to
    accomplish.

    Sincerely,

    Patricia

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  • larc
    larc

    Dear Yeldell2,

    Zazu is my wife, and I thought you would like her. She and I were engaged to be married when my mother had her last bad episode. My wife loved my mother dearly. I say Loved because my mother his since died. I am 60 and my wife is 59.

    Those symptoms you mentioned about all the sounds around you being amplified and confusing is typical of your condition. Hang in there sis, I have much hope that things will work out for you.

  • OrangeVale Bob
    OrangeVale Bob

    Dear Yelldell2,
    I have never experienced anything like you have described, and cannot fully grasp the depth of your suffering. My mother had arthritis and also underwent a surgical hip replacement. So I can somewhat empathize with you.
    If you are not already doing it, you might want to keep a record of how the meds you are taking affect you. Especially any negative side effects. If you stop taking a paticular med, note that also. Share this info with your M.D.'s. Oftentimes they can prescribe alternative drugs to eliminate negative reactions you may have.
    I'm glad to hear that your kid's and the congregation are looking after you. I'm glad, too, that you draw comfort from Jehovah and prayer.
    You are in my thoughts and prayers,
    OVB

  • mommy
    mommy

    Hello yelldell2,
    I am a nurse and also had an operation this year and one of my ovairies removed it has been 7 months since that time and my hormones have still not adjusted BACK TO NORMAL (whatever that is:))
    On top of that I was in an accident that injured my back am also in CONSTANT pain.
    I feel for you, yet I am unable to help, because I don't know what to tell you but what I keep praying myself.... I will be NORMAL again and feel like the MYSELF (that I know and love:))
    I will pray for you and pray for me as well:)
    mommy

  • RedhorseWoman
    RedhorseWoman

    YellDell2,

    So sorry to hear about your many problems. Have you tried any alternative solutions, such as vitamins or herbs?

    Sometimes the homeopathic medicines are much more efficacious than allopathic medicines. I know that herbal remedies allowed me to go through menopause with many fewer symptoms than I would have had. I tried some of the allopathic medications my doctor prescribed, but I was allergic to them, and had severe side effects. The vitamins and herbs have kept things going, however.

    Most doctors these days are willing to combine their expertise with naturopaths or herbalists.

    We'll keep you in our prayers.

  • yeldell2
    yeldell2

    Dear Mommy:

    Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my message. It was
    written because I've had to rely on the strength I get from Jehovah
    and also to help encourage so many of our brothers and sisters, whom
    I know also are suffering "in this system of things." I do have some
    pain and cannot walk upright, but your physical condition seems much
    worse to me. It is truly a time to have to rely on God for the inner
    peace and comfort that he gives to us. I would imagine that you are
    on disability as I am. I have begun a group on AOL - disabled sisters
    like myself, looking for the companionship of disabled brothers or
    brothers who understand the many hardships we have to undergo in order
    to be able to continue to serve Jehovah faithfully. I do not know if
    you are married but I have never been. Perhaps, you could join my
    group. It is listed under Group@AOL, under the heading of Let's Become Serious, in the dating and relationship section.

    Sisters like us need the physical love and nurturing and understanding
    that only a brother could understand. We endure so much, until our
    emotional are sometimes not met, if you understand what I mean.

    May Jehovah God bless you. I will, indeed, include you in my thoughts
    and prayers.

    Sincerely,

    Patricia

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