Hey Coffee House Girl, didn't you mention that your BF was like 20 years older than you? So are you saying sex with older men is the bomb How is that relationship working out, him being older, just curious. For the record I think it's fantastic, just thought you might share more info on it
coffee house girl
as this has turned into a bit of a discussion on age gaps and libido i'll weigh in my bit!:
When i started to live again sexually The first experience (two years after leaving wife) freaked me out because it ended my marriage, but after that... well, my old boss used to introduce me as......... he'll root a rolling donut! NOT true. I waited for them to stop first.
Girlfriend number one was a true sexual awakening i must say. Girlfriend number two just didn't compare i am sad to say.
Girlfriend number 3 was 17 years my junior. Blew my mind in bed. Blew my mind in life too. I married her two years ago. I am 47, she 30. I dont think age has anything to do with how well we get on as a couple. Both of us never ever thought we would meet somebody so right. Now, at first we went at it like rabbits. Now though, we go at it like rabbits, just maybe not twice a day. well sometimes there might be a few days break in between but still the cuddles and affection are displayed with each other anyway.
It will slow down a bit but if you and your man stay connected with each other then the love and passion should remain too, thats what i believe anyway.
And please people! Dont think i'm bragging ok?
lol
oz
EDIT: having been sharing this thread with my wife i must add her perspective!
She says i am a raving horn bag because i have a younger 'thing'. She thinks older men feel more vital and verile with a younger partner. I do tend to agree some i guess. Her libido lifts mine i must admit.
So... if ya like it do it! If ya like it lots, do it lots!
Are any of you addicted to your new sexual revolution?
by Coffee House Girl 37 Replies latest social relationships
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Aussie Oz
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mindmelda
I've always been like that. But my husband and I never paid much attention to WTS sexual bullshit. In fact, he's molesting me at this very moment. LOL
That stuff is so unhealthy for marriages and any other kind of intimate relationships. Geez, it's hard enough to stay together without their buzzkilling bullshit pissing on your party.
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awildflower
Hey AO thanks for sharing that!
I dont think age has anything to do with how well we get on as a couple. Both of us never ever thought we would meet somebody so right.
What a cool thing to say. I agree.
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St George of England
So are you saying sex with older men is the bomb
Better an old man's darling than a young man's slave!!
George
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Scott77
Girlfriend number 3 was 17 years my junior. Blew my mind in bed. Blew my mind in life too. I married her two years ago. I am 47, she 30. I dont think age has anything to do with how well we get on as a couple. Both of us never ever thought we would meet somebody so right. OZ Kudos Its amazing, you said it. Its also awesome that awildflower agreed with it. I think this is a consolation, uplifting messages of solance and encouragements to those older or young Ex-JWs here in JWN site, who are now out but find themselves old and unsure of what ages will their prospective mates be.
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av8orntexas
I know if I'll say addicted, as much as I have a high sex drive. I think thats who I would be if I had never been a JW.
Since the age thing has popped up,I'm open. I'm 33,but I draw the line at 28/29ish as far as younger goes. I've jumped through enough hoops.
33+ is good with me.
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EmptyInside
This might encourage me to hasten my fade. lol.
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cyberjesus
she hasnt posted back.... so I guess shes been busy having sex?
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mkr32208
If he needs to tap out I'm available!
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awildflower
Yeah, come up for air Coffee House Girl