How far I have come in 10 years.

by LouBelle 10 Replies latest jw friends

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    I came across a passage I had written 10 years ago when I was 24, and when I look back many writings were of this nature.

    24 year old Louise:

    I honestly feel like I just cannot go on any more. I look around my room and that is my life. My 4 dark blue wall in which I spend my days. At 24 years of age I am thunderstruk at how much of nothing I have. I have no family, I have no special person in my life. I have nothing much in the way of material things. I don't even know if I have love. The place I am now is a very sad and lonely place and it's hard coping on your own. My life is a ruin. There is no way of escape! I must admit though, I've never really had a life to talk about, so why am I so upset. It's just hit me, the penny has dropped. I have absolutely no home. I have no home. Nowhere I know that won't go away. No stability. Where would I go? Who would I turn too? It's too taxing to put on that smiley face and laughter when all I want to do is cry and walk around in a daze. It's too much to bare. How can I go on when I thing about going into my grans' room and swallowing her pills or slitting my wrists or getting a gun and shooting myself. That is what I want to do....just end my life. End all the pain, end all the struggling. To end the longing in my heart for normality. Maybe it shouldn't affect me, but it does. How do I turn off my emotions. I don't know, I just can't, I just can't anymore. For the last 24 years I can't remember a time when I was ever truly happy and secure. Maybe I am the one with too many hangups. **end**

    Then 10 years later at 34 years of age I can write or just feel this kind of thing blows my mind...

    34 year old Louise:

    I am Africas' woman. I am the lover of this land. I put him close to my ample bosm in an intimate embrace. Africa feels my heart beat like the drum calling it's dances and he is enticed by it's exotic rhythm. My heartbeat fills his body and he is one with me, he moves with me. I am an African woman, I hold my head up with pride, my mind alert and strong, my neck felxible to change. I breathe in hot african air through my nostrils and it is earthy and good. It provides me with life. I taste it! I hunger for it! Embrace me my Africa, dance with to the rhythm of the life drum, twirling around and stomping my bare fee to the ground, raising the dust. I am an African woman and I am one with my lover. **end**

    How life has changed for me. I can see my spiritual path and how it has developed and improved over the years to the place where I am now. Which is a VERY good place.

  • Heaven
    Heaven

    LouBelle... this is wonderful! Every single one of us has some kind of scars from this life. It is our choice as to whether we let them rule us or we rule over them. I am glad you figured out how to overcome your pain to live your life.

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    That is quite some transformation Louise and I love the new you.

    Congratulations.

    (((((LouBelle)))))

    Chris

  • Mad Sweeney
    Mad Sweeney

    That really is awesome!

  • chickpea
    chickpea

    absolutely, stunningly, beautifully uplifitng!

    if only every spirit in the throes of despair
    could realize that the answer is not to die...
    but to truly embrace life in all its manifestations

    ((((((loubelle))))))))

    absolutely wonderful

  • Nowman
    Nowman

    That was an AWESOME read. I truly appreciated it.

    Nikki

  • journey-on
    journey-on

    LouBelle....I have chill bumps on my arms right now from reading this. What a transformation you have made. I hope someone feeling so full of despair comes across this and draws some hope and determination from your beautiful words.

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    Veels geluk, LouBelle!

    Sylvia

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    It truly is awesome. I can feel life flowing through my veins. I'm so in love with it. I had healed up pretty well from being in that faith, but now I can truly say it is all gone. The slate is totally clean - no hang ups, no guilt - I have a new life and I love it! It's thanks to forums like this that the healing can begin, then we've got to run with it.

    I urge all of those that feel down about where they are in their life to just carry on putting one foot in front of the next - It does and it will get better.

  • kurtbethel
    kurtbethel

    It has been quite a journey, with much more to come. I also have developed a love for your land, but that is for another thread.

    With much gratitude, and best wishes for your future, Kurt.

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