I've been on here nearly a year and I believe it is time to move on.
I think I know what I want out of life. I have been spending less time on here and am now back in full time employment (not on a consultancy basis - but properly employed!).
I need to think about building a career and consider the future, build a retirement fund, reduce my debts and pay off my mortgage. In other words start living a real life free of the cult not just a virtual one.
You guys have been a great support and I thank you all. I have made some friends here and look forward to meeting more of you soon.
I am sure I will still use this site, but nothing like the extent I have been.
If anyone wants my email - PM me I will send it to you.
Although I will still be using facebook, again it will be much less than I have been. My daughter uses my account to play Petville and other games so keep sending the gifts.
Cantleave, has left the lie and is moving on - a real life awaits.