Honest, Humble, Hungry.
In the ministry we are taught that only these types of people with come into the truth.
Once in though, having legitimate concerns, doubts, and questions are played up as one not being honest (charges that you really want to do what you can't as a JW), not being humble (charges that you think you know better than everyone else), not being hungry (charges you don't care about the truth or your spiritual need).
Explain this to me. The person comming into the truth (and thus leaving somewhere else) would have a very similar attitute as the person leaving the truth on merits for doctronial reasons.