Sigh....
Bane,
1) I understand where you are coming from with your dismay over the level of anger and hostility. But please first do not equate one or even many people you meet on an internet forum like this and expect the same social norms you may be used to. The somewhat anonymous or at least faceless nature of the internet means that people often feel more free to speak thier mind in a unfiltered manner. Unfortunatly this can and is often unproductive. Still the potential benifits of communication can and often do outwiegh the lack of manners and tact. Bottom line try to be a bit more thickskinned about the language and realize that anger/hostility directed at you on an internet forum cannot actually threaten you. With that you can simply choose to read and participate while enduring the discomfort or choose to not come to this site.
2) You must realize, being a JW that there is no online forum or information online approved by the WTS other than thier website. That in of itself is enough of a reason that if found out and if no repentance displayed, that you could be df'd for loose conduct. Faithful in little and faithful in much. The organization does not want you here. Still here you are.
3) The people here enjoy doing so, for whatever reason. I can empethize with those who come here to vent when they cannot do that in any other manner without much greater risk of shunning by family and friends. I myself don't spend alot of time on internet forums in general for the very problems I addressed in my first paragraph. I don't live a secret life though. I don't preach and I don't attend meetings except to help my with with our 3 little ones and to often just make her feel less akward when she has to go alone like a single mom. I try to keep a low profile as to not cause trouble but honestly I don't think anyone who hangs around me at all is fooled into thinking I'm a faithful witness. In fact someone who I considered a freind at one time came to my wife when I wasn't home and counseled her on how best to deal with living with an apostate. This is something I consider at best, bad manners, and very innapropriate. I do not however equate his manner with all witnesses, I just wanted to point out that I'm not living a double life, just mine as best I can.
To the rest of you,
Try to give the guy a break, he's one guy not the whole organization and he came here, try to use a little more honey and alot less vinager. I heard it's better at something.