I don't pretend to understand what motivates my husband when it comes to his family. He's completely fine ignoring, even hating mine, but his he's wishy washy. (They have completely shunned me, but still try to be kind to him and our children, blaming ME for tearing their poor family member away from Jah)
His sister called today and said she's going canoeing, or camping, or whatever, and proceeds to ask to borrow our camping gear. He says yes. Then he asks ME if I can get the stuff out. I tell him HELL NO. In fact, I won't even BE here when she comes, and neither will he. He's working, and I'm taking my "Jezebel Whore" ass out for a coffee and some book reading at the local Barnes and Nobles. It IS however packed up right next to all of our Xmas stuff. hehe
Screw em all.