Hi Titus, first of all, I think you should definitely stay. :)
Secondly, I think the point in the previous post about possibly going to prison was that the Society's position on it changed, and had he gone to prison because the Society insisted he couldn't do otherwise, it would have been for something the society NOW says is OK, it would have been for nothing. Just as the many deaths of people who were told vaccines were 'satanic' and wrong, and that organ transplants were wrong, that hemophiliac medicine, all blood, and now just some blood is wrong... all those deaths and all that suffering (including, for instance, the murders and persecutions of JW's in Malawi) were unnecessary because the Society has changed it's view on those things since - despite falsely claiming each time they changed their minds that it was GOD's standard they were proclaiming and that to go against it meant disfellowshipping and death at God's hands.
Often, 'new light', comes only after many thousands have suffered or died UNNECESSARILY because of the man-made 'old light'