For Those Who Don't Know (and you will know who you are)...

by AGuest 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • AGuest
    AGuest
    Some people actually prefer to hear both sides, and hear all the facts before passing judgment.

    If that is the case, dear KS (peace to you!)... then everyone here who has a problem with WTBTS elders/others who "allegedly" molest children should back off. Because a whole LOT of "judgment" is passed on those situations LONG before "all the facts" are heard. Because the REALITY is that "all the facts" are almost NEVER heard... because such cases are settled... usually soon after depositions are concluded.

    Here, though, I proimse you that HUD investigated the matter, including speaking with the SELLER'S agent, who would have told the investigator why their client reneged on the sale... BEFORE they ever brought the charges. That is the process, same as in any criminal case: the DA speaks to all parties to see if he/she even has a case to bring. If they had merely spoken to the Buyer's agent, then they would risk losing the case should the Seller's agent could deny the statement. SO, if someone is LYING... it's the seller's own agent. And why would he/she do THAT... and put his/her entire company at risk of getting a reputation for lying on clients?

    I have to say, however, that while I stated before that believed the case will not go to trial but settle... I have reviewed the article again and now I am not so sure. Because the punitive damages this case have the potential to be pretty substantial. The seller's agent will most certainly be deposed (which is why his/her employer currently has no comment; they are most probably preparing for just that) and although the defendants may TRY to settle before a trial, it just MIGHT go because the Plaintiffs just might refuse any settlement offer... in lieu of such potential punitives.

    The family qualified in all respects. Indeed, their offer was ACCEPTED... quickly. Until... what? "Someone" showed up to sign the papers? Oops...

    I bid you peace, dear KS...

    A slave of Christ,

    SA

  • THE GLADIATOR
    THE GLADIATOR

    ...

    then everyone here who has a problem with WTBTS elders/others who "allegedly" molest children should back off. Because a whole LOT of "judgment" is passed on those situations LONG before "all the facts" are heard.

    This is a fair point. Alice was hounded of this forum for taking a similar stance. This illustrates how we can take a position that accommodates the information that we have absorbed. Real truth is based on proven facts.

    Very few people are totally objective, including myself. Like many, I choose to keep alive certain illusions.

    The glare of absolute reality is too bright without sunglasses.

  • AGuest
    AGuest
    I just happen to think that in such a lousy economy, anyone's green one point something million dollars is more important than their skin color, so I cannot automatically assume the story is correct.

    That was the point of the matter, dear OTWO... that IN THIS ECONOMY, when money is still green... there are just some things that money cannot buy. Still...

    How can Prudential Rubloff answer for their client? It isn't their mess and they ain't digging in it. Either their client said it or

    their client did not, so they need to contact their attorney and their client to stay the hell out of it the best they can.

    That's not entirely accurate, dear one. It was the Prudential Rubloff agent who allegedly SAID what the clients stated their reason was. If that is true, then that agent had an obligation to report it, to his/her employer, who had a obligation to report it... to the local FHAP/HUD. If they agent didn't report it to the company, then the company has a problem... and is liable... because it shows a lack of training... or prudence... on the part of their agent/employee. If the agent DID report it, but the company did nothing, well, then, there you go: liability. It could ALSO be that the agent reported it AND the company knew... AND advised the clients to take the home off the market if they didn't want to sell under those circumstances (because then they really WOULD be in violation of the FHA)... which is also wrong.

    I know how these things work, dear OTWO... because I train realtors and agents IN Fair Housing law. And I PROMISE you... continuing education aside, many STILL do not know the LAW. And if THEY don't, you can imagine how many SELLERS don't. Quiet as kept, the U.S. Government will be bringing a buttload of Fair Lending cases against banks, lenders, mortgagees, and mortgage brokers in the very near future... because a buttload of those loans that sparked the "mortage crisis"... were absolutely discriminatory.

    I must apologize for stating my opinions on your thread when they were not to your liking.

    Absolutely NO need to apologize, dear one! We're both adults and you are totally free to state your opinion... as I am to point out that you're not being totally truthful as to your motive. But... what do I know?

    From now on, I will wait until the Holy Spirit is done telling you what to think, then let it (him,her???) tell me what to think.

    Kind of a both, actually... and I won't deny that you might be better off...

    Again, peace (and I DO mean that!) to you!

    A slave of Christ,

    SA

  • sammielee24
    sammielee24

    The couple might be 'ugly' for the way they think but I'm not sure if the suit will stand up in court. There was no contract signed and so up to that point, a conversation held with the owners is private - so I'm not sure legally where it will stand. An interesting case - sammieswife

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    The home, in Chicago's Bridgeport neighborhood, was listed for about $1.8 million and had been for sale for almost two years when the Willborns toured it in early January, according to the complaint filed with HUD's office of administrative law judges. The couple made a $1.5 million offer for the home that day, and after two days of negotiation, the Willborns accepted the $1.7 million counteroffer from the Sabbias.

    But the Sabbias never signed a sales contract. Lowe, their real estate agent, on Jan. 11 told the Willborns' agent, Dylcia Cornelious, that the Sabbias had changed their mind and were taking the home off the market.

    The Willborns filed a complaint with HUD on Jan. 29. After receiving the complaint Feb. 1, HUD said, the Sabbias offered to sell the home and all its furniture to the Willborns for about $1.8 million. The Willborns declined.

    HUD formalized its complaint after settlement discussions between the parties faltered. The case is important because it shows that housing discrimination "occurs at all income levels," said John Trasvina, a HUD assistant secretary.

    According to the HUD complaint, Lowe said under oath that while he was representing the Sabbias, Daniel Sabbia told Lowe "he would prefer not to sell the home to an African-American, though he qualified the testimony, saying 'but if it was for the right price he did not care who bought the house.' "

    According to HUD, Daniel Sabbia's sister and brother-in-law live next door to the home and other family members live in the neighborhood.

    Cornelious, of Re/Max 2000 in Crete, Ill., said she encouraged the couple to file a complaint with the federal housing agency. "It was absolutely racist," she said Tuesday. "Most buyers don't know what their rights are when it comes to things like this. You don't know what the law says as a buyer. I told them go ahead and file, because it stinks to me."



    Read more: http://www.idahostatesman.com/2010/08/10/1298820_home-sellers-accused-of-bias-after.html#ixzz0wKlPd5jn

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    We're both adults and you are totally free to state your opinion... as I am to point out that you're not being totally truthful as to your motive. But... what do I know?

    Now I am accused of not being totally truthful as to [my] motive. WTF????????? I really was done here, but no.... You did it, you dragged me back with that statement out of left field.

    I could go many places with that. I could say that you KNOW what the sellers were thinking and saying just as you KNOW what I am thinking and saying now. I could say that the Holy Spirit whispered something in your ear like: Those sellers are racists and OTWO is lying. I won't do it though. I won't assume anything out of that accusation that I am lying. I will simply go back to my last statement on page one of this thread:
    Go ahead and flame flame flame away at me. You've made me look better than I could do myself.

  • AGuest
    AGuest
    The couple might be 'ugly' for the way they think but I'm not sure if the suit will stand up in court. There was no contract signed and so up to that point, a conversation held with the owners is private - so I'm not sure legally where it will stand:

    Under the Fair Housing Act, it is a crime to even make a discriminatory statement with regard to renting or selling housing in the U.S., dear SammiesWife (peace to you!).

    The Willborns filed a complaint with HUD on Jan. 29. After receiving the complaint Feb. 1, HUD said, the Sabbias offered to sell the home and all its furniture to the Willborns for about $1.8 million.

    So, a house that was initially listed for "about $1.8 million"... was given an offer of $1.5 million... after which the SELLERS counteroffered with $1.7 million... which counteroffer was ACCEPTED for $1.7 million... but then the sellers abruptly take the house off the market... until they receive notice of a COMPLAINT filed against them... after which they now want $1.8 million. So, to add insult to injury... "We WILL sell you our house, but it's gonna cost YOU more..."

    HUD formalized its complaint after settlement discussions between the parties faltered.

    Now, WHY in the WORLD would there even need to BE "settlement discussions"... if no one did anything WRONG???

    According to the HUD complaint, Lowe said under oath that while he was representing the Sabbias, Daniel Sabbia told Lowe "he would prefer not to sell the home to an African-American, though he qualified the testimony, saying 'but if it was for the right price he did not care who bought the house.' "

    Well, we now know neither the plaintiffs... or THEIR agent... was making it up...

    According to HUD, Daniel Sabbia's sister and brother-in-law live next door to the home and other family members live in the neighborhood.

    Ahhhh... perhaps "someone"... "helped" the sellers to change their minds?

    Cornelious, of Re/Max 2000 in Crete, Ill., said she encouraged the couple to file a complaint with the federal housing agency. "It was absolutely racist," she said Tuesday. "Most buyers don't know what their rights are when it comes to things like this. You don't know what the law says as a buyer. I told them go ahead and file, because it stinks to me."

    Now THAT'S a GOOD as well as "reputable" realtor... and a lawful one. The TRUTH is that Lowe... and HIS company should have told them to file, if not filed themselves. The fact that they DIDN'T... is why THEY'RE also named in the suit. I know this... because this is what I DO.

    Now I am accused of not being totally truthful as to [my] motive. WTF?????????

    No accusation, dear OTWO. I was being entirely serious... and entirely truthful. And although you might not like to HEAR that, if you took a moment to think about it, you would know that...

    I really was done here, but no.... You did it, you dragged me back with that statement out of left field.

    Oh, ummmm... sorry?

    I could go many places with that. I could say that you KNOW what the sellers were thinking and saying just as you KNOW what I am thinking and saying now.

    But you won't, will you, because you... and most here... already know the truthful answer to both...

    I could say that the Holy Spirit whispered something in your ear like: Those sellers are racists and OTWO is lying.

    Actually, it really didn't take all that. Some things really are obvious just on their face. But I am not even saying the sellers themselves were racist. One does not have to BE a racist to engage in racist conduct. For example, they may not have had a problem at all, but the sister/BIL did. The latter, then, would be the racists here, literally; however, the sellers showed themselves to be... by proxy. And their conduct absolutely was racist...

    I won't do it though. I won't assume anything out of that accusation that I am lying.

    Well, at least that's honest...

    I will simply go back to my last statement on page one of this thread: Go ahead and flame flame flame away at me. You've made me look better than I could do myself

    If you think so, but I have to honestly say that I seriously doubt it.

    Look, dear OTWO... I realize that you wanted to give these folks the benefit of the doubt. But this is my line of work, and thus what I have access to regarding this matters showed me otherwise. I KNEW that HUD had already spoken with THEIR agent... because I know the PROCESS. Which is that HUD doesn't even BRING a charge until they have fully INVESTIGATED the claims. So all of that about "hearsay" and such... the seller's agent had already been deposed. For him to say something different NOW... could cost him his career... make his company liable for what his clients said... as well as make HIM monetarily liable. Do you REALLY think he's going to do that?

    Here's the thing: I do have a "higher" authority that I answer to... and there is NO way I would have just put these folks out there if I didn't know the claims had already been substantiated. I mean, what in the world is that?? I did not call these folks racists. I only pointed to their case to show that racism does indeed exist in our great country today, contrary to popular belief of many, including some here (i.e., "those who know who they are"). THEIR agent said they did not want to sell to African Americans. And it blows me AWAY that a whole lot of folks are yelling "WTF"... but NOT about that. I ask you: WT... is THAT?? Heck, let someone say, "I would prefer not to sell my house to a white man..." and you won't say, "WTF"?? Seriously? Yet, you responded as if I just heard some unsubstantiated, off-the-wall, story and was chomping at the bit to be able to say, "Oh, yeah, THESE folks are SO racist."

    I do this for a living, dear OTWO... and I assure you that this is just ONE case... one I recieved today. And I posted it because it shows... to those who do not "believe"... that racism is still present in this great country. And there are THOUSANDS of these cases... but you never HEAR about them because they settle BEFORE HUD files charges. The ONLY reason you heard about THIS one... was, as this above article stated, because "settlement discussions" faltered. A recent one, that did NOT settle before trial, actually involved an entire COUNTY in upper state New York (Westchester County)... where the cities are all still literally segregated. Literally... and by local LAW.

    So, I DO bid you peace... and, if you among those who "don't know"... perhaps some motivation to FIND OUT.

    YOUR servant and a slave of Christ,

    SA

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    Thank you to Sammielee24 for providing more information.

    AG, I had no hidden or deceitful motive in posting my opinion. I live in Chicago and heard that newscast that you posted when it came live. I was watching for news of other things. I already had the opinion that I needed more information before accepting the story of an accusation at face value. It wasn't about you or what you know or what your insider knowledge is. I simply had no more than the initial story you posted and refused to rush to judgement.

    May you continue to make me look better with your comments.

  • AGuest
    AGuest
    May you continue to make me look better with your comments

    Well, if your Avatar is any clue, I really don't have much to do, dear OTWO - . At any rate, my "work" is "done" here.

    Again, peace to you. Truly.

    YOUR servant and a slave of Christ,

    SA

  • Mary
    Mary

    I don't know what I find more shocking: that anyone would be dumb enough to turn down $1,500,000 because the buyers were black, or that anyone actually has $1,500,000 to spend on a house these days.

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