Could you die without anyone noticing?

by AK - Jeff 32 Replies latest jw friends

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    Not long ago I had 100 'friends' - or so I thought. I certainly had 100 or more people who said they were friends. Then I left a cult, and found myself with very few friends - those kind in the flesh, in the community. A few, but not many, and almost none of them would ever think of just dropping by to see me.

    In my case, I have a wife, a sister in the area, my father close by, and two of my grandchildren live with us. But I often wonder if I lived alone, fell over one morning and died unexpectedly, how long would I lie there before someone found me?

    Virtually no one ever visits us - sometimes the grandkids - but not me. Occasionally the neighbor lady stops by to visit my wife - but not me.

    I would hate to think I could be one of those people found dead in my bed - turned to dust before discovered. It happens occasionally.

    I actually cherish my quiet life, my solicitude. Just wondering.....

    Anyone else ever wonder if they would be that headline "Man found in his bathtub. Possibly dead for two years!"

    Jeff

  • mimimimi
    mimimimi

    Nope, not me. My dog would be devastated. My husband would be, too, as well as my sons and daughter-in-law, grandson, sisters, mother, next door neighbors, and all the doctors I do dictation for.

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    AK-Jeff..

    I`m better off..

    Something in my yard would probably eat me..

    ...................... ...OUTLAW

  • mimimimi
    mimimimi

    Well, I guess what I needed to say is that they would all notice right away. I love solitude, too, and have lots of time to myself as I work at home and the majority of my days are spent alone till hubby comes home from work. Though my kids are grown and moved out (one son bought the house next door), all the above are a big part of my life. I'm very lucky. I have a couple of good friends, too, that I care a great deal about, but we don't talk to/see each other very often. But we are there for each other when needed and have a great deal of affection for one another.

    Since my husband was not a witness and my children chose not to be, I was in much better shape than a lot of people on here who only had witnesses in their lives. I feel for so many on here. I hope all on here in that position can make new friends, form new relationships, and have happy, fulfilled lives.

  • wasblind
    wasblind

    Hey Outlaw,

    i thought that had already happened when you went missing for ten days

    i just knew them bears had a belly full of Outlaw and had the dog for desert

  • elderelite
    elderelite

    This hits close to home. My brothers mother (dont ask) died. it was two weeks before she was found, decomposing in a chair.

    For me.. no i would be missed quickly. My dog needs someone to feed her Thats enough for me.

  • finallysomepride
    finallysomepride

    Not currently as I am working & would be missed at work, plus my eldest daughter lives with me, but I do see that potentialy this could happen in the future when I retire in 10-15 yrs, hopefully I have gained a few good friends by then

  • HappyDad
    HappyDad

    Jeff,

    Even though I boast that I have more friends now than I ever did as a JW.....I know that if I dropped dead in my apartment.......no one would know any different. The only person that matters to me and loves me is my daughter who lives 1200 miles away in Florida and calls me every day. If I didn't answer my home phone or cell phone in a day or so........and didn't respond to her emails and Facebook inquiries.........she would make the proper calls to whomever. Even the church I now attend and claim friendship with some of the ones there....... they are superficial. I say that with confidence because when I quit going for a time, the only call I got was weeks later from the pastor wondering what happened to me. I'm ready to give that up also. I've come to realize that I don't need to "belong". If I want to claim belief.....that is between me and the creator I believe in.

    I think that at almost 64 years of age.....I'm finally evolving.

    Best to you,

    HappyDad

  • garyneal
    garyneal

    Right now, my wife and my daughter depend too much on me to my disappearance to not be noticed. That's a good thing, I suppose. I doubt anyone at the church I attend would notice since I only see them once a week and really on a peripheral basis. I guess right now my wife and my daughter come first.

  • clarity
    clarity

    Hhmmm.............................................think I better get a dog.............real fast!!! c

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