Heartsick

by EmptyInside 13 Replies latest jw friends

  • EmptyInside
    EmptyInside

    I'm sorry, it seems like I only post when I'm down. So, most here probably think I'm depressed all the time,which isn't true.

    But, I had a long distance romance, and now he doesn't even respond to my e-mails. We have been talking for almost two years now. The last time we talked on the phone was August 19th. We ended our call in the usual way, "l love you."

    But, then, because I hadn't heard from him I was kind of upset and let him know,but then, he never responded to my apologies or anything. I never expected this to go anywhere, but I thought we would end as friends. I never expected him just to drop me like this without any explanation. It hurts so bad. Not that it matters, but he was my first "worldly" friend. And it was nice talking to someone who was totally neutral in my leaving the Witnesses.

    This isn't the first time I've had my heart broken. I'm sure it won't be the last. Thanks for indulging me. Maybe some could share some of their break-up experiences so I won't feel so alone.

  • JWoods
    JWoods
    I'm sorry, it seems like I only post when I'm down. So, most here probably think I'm depressed all the time,which isn't true.

    Sorry to hear it. Maybe you should change your posting name when you feel better? I would also suggest finding somebody in your locality that you can meet face to face.

  • Lozhasleft
    Lozhasleft

    Hi there, aw its sad when you get hurt...is there maybe a valid reason he's not in touch though, possibly? Are you sure he's just 'finishing' things or are you just presuming the worst maybe? Have a hug anyway....relationships arent always easy...

    Loz x

  • Darth plaugeis
    Darth plaugeis

    I hate posting something with bad timing..............

    I hope you can feel better and you will

  • EmptyInside
    EmptyInside

    Admit it, you did it on purpose. lol.

  • Darth plaugeis
    Darth plaugeis

    I SWEAR I DIDN'T

    I feel like my song.......

    who's the Jerk.... I AM!!

  • VampireDCLXV
    VampireDCLXV

    I'm sorry to hear about your grief over a long distance relationship but they aren't an easy thing. You have to have a plan of sorts. One cannot expect a LDR to remain so over the long term or indefinitely. One of the parties eventually has to make up his/her mind to move closer to the other if the relationship is to continue to grow and thrive. Do you see this guy face to face much? How far apart do you guys live? Specifics are always helpful...

    V665

  • Coffee House Girl
    Coffee House Girl

    awww..I'm sorry empty inside- being left with no explanation is very unfair, everyone deserves the dignity of some kind of closure

    My first "worldy" man friend doesnt talk to me either, but he is upset that I started dating coffee shop guy (but he wouldn't committ to a relationship so I don't know why he is so upset...but anyway I try not to get angry when he runs away from me when I walk down the street...so juvinile)

    hang in there- I hope for you to meet someone nice (someone closer- no more long distance)

    CHG

  • goldensky
    goldensky

    Dear Emptyinside, I suppose all of us have had our heart broken, and sometimes more than once during our lifetime. When it's happening you experience an unbearable feeling of longing for the person, but invariably it gets better with time and one day you discover you've somehow overcome it and are ready for a new relationship. I hope the hurt subsides as fast as possible and you meet somebody else who is able to awaken romantic feelings in your heart.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Hope you feel better soon.

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