Thanks for the warm welcome and advice, all. I do plan on keeping to myself for now.
However, there are steps I can take. I'm making sure the kids know that they are going to college or else. I'm signing them up for extra-curriculars. I'm making sure they make friends at school. This will set the stage in the future. Plus Im missing as many meetings as I can while staying under the radar. I'm faking field service time. And doing territory in as inefficient manner possible. Plus, we're not doing any territory where my kids could run into schoolmates.
You all seem really nice. I always had the knack for making friends that ended up and leaving. (That should've been an indicator that this wasn't for me.) I always wonder what happened to those friends. I bet they are here.