Gits! Didn't even fight to keep me lol! Told hubby I had disassociated before he went to the meeting and found out from the elders. I thought it was better as I didn't want to give them any grounds to criticise me. Hubby never really reacted to the news, but just said 'oh I see, well whatever you want'. He is just back from the meeting and the elders were comforting him . They accept it and are going to announce it on Wednesday. I was gearing myself up for a bit of drama, even looking forward to being dramatic, but nothing.
They accepted my DA letter without a fight
by carpediem 13 Replies latest jw friends
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OnTheWayOut
Well, whether there's drama or not: CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR FREEDOM. I hope things work out for you with family.
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littlebird
Hooray! You're free !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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moshe
elders were comforting him
what a joke- they don't make life easy for people who just don't want to kiss up to the JWs. Hubby will now have to show where his loyaty lies.
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Soldier77
Maybe the husband see's hope for himself. Now that you're out, maybe that is what will swing his pendelum the other way and leave too. I don't know your situation so I'm probably way off the mark But you can always hope!
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tec
I'm sorry you didn't get the big finale that you're hoping for :)
I'm glad you're out though, and at least you have a husband who said, 'whatever you want' rather than try and guilt or bully you back in.
Tammy
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cult classic
Well that was very brave of you
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jamiebowers
God for you!
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Cadellin
If you can go through with this and keep your marriage intact, then all the more power to you!!! Wish I could...
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jamiebowers
LOL, I meant Good for you!