Recently my husband and I were having this conversation, it went something like this
Me -"well, would it help to remember her name if I spelled it, so you could see the words?"
Him - "how in the world would hearing you spell it help me see it...write it down, but that still won't help me remember it later...now relate it to someone else I know, like word relation, that might help"
Me - "it could be christy, or kristi...when I tell you its with a K and an I, that doesn't help you? You can't just SEE that?"
Him - "are you high? I can't SEE anything when I TALK, or THINK...that's ridiculous"
Me - "i totally can SEE the words...the ones I'm saying! I see colors, and words like text, and I can see emotions as colors. The number 4 is green...when I said green it wasn't green, but rather like rainbowy and it sorta floated over that way (gesturing to the right) and went away like a bubble"
Him - "you are high. I never see words, not in my head, not in the air floating like damn bubbles. I see them on paper, and when you take the paper away they are gone. I can only remember them from memory, but I don't SEE them"
Me - "wow, I'm really lucky then. I can still see what I just said btw"
Him - walks away laughing and shaking his head...mumbling something about how special I am
:D
In all seriousness, it's a blessing and a curse. I can remember details of conversations like they are a script, complete with emotion and smells and what we were wearing and standing, inflection of voice and perceived intent. It really makes getting past arguments or conversations difficult. But it makes it really easy to WIN in them. ;)