to all men in their 40ies or older

by varian 30 Replies latest jw friends

  • varian
    varian

    i must admit, that i love being with youger woman. i´m 44 now, and so far the partners i had, where between 3 and 15 years younger, which i consider okayish. but recently, i´ve had email offers from girls between 19 and early 20. now i really don´t know what to think about that. they want to meet me, but hmm.....

    on the other hand i saw 2 couples not so long ago. those guys where well over 50 walking with - i would guess - 20 years olds. that was pretty mind bugging for me, especially because they where very attraktive women. i just thought like: how the hell did they get them??? because the blokes were nothing but good looking at all, according to my observance.

    so to my question: if you´re 40 or older, would you go out with a young woman in her early 20ies?

  • VampireDCLXV
    VampireDCLXV

    NO!!!

    V665V665

  • AudeSapere
    AudeSapere

    20+ year age difference?

    I'm guessing serious 'Daddy Issues' and/or gold-diggers.

    -Aude.

  • asilentone
    asilentone

    I was 43 when I was dating 28 year old lady two years ago. It did not work out too well. It was the biggest age difference I have ever dated someone. I liked someone else in her early 20's, she was giving me some hints to ask her out, but I never did because we don't think alike, etc....I think it is best to ask someone out in your age range.

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    One of my friends is married to someone 18 years her senior and has been married for 24 years, now.

    It's worked out very well and they are a very happy couple.

    Same with another couple I know.

    I think it depends on the people and their personalities.

    I do know for a fact that few 20 somethings can carry on conversations that would hold a 40 year old's attention.

    Egg is one of those few, but she's not looking.

  • looloo
    looloo

    i dont think you would have much in common after the lust stuff wore off im afraid and as a female i know that a woman in her early 20s is most definatly not the same woman by her mid 30s and would probably "outgrow " you , though im sure there are exceptions , stick to mid 30s + if i were you !

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    20?..LOL!!..Not a chance..

    Thats not a Date,it`s a Babysitting Job..

    ...................... ...OUTLAW

  • clarity
    clarity

    Varian,

    It is so amazing to think that men & women were actually 'made for each other'.

    Hmmm, when I look around...not so much! We don't even speak the same language!

    Venus & Mars. Books are written all about how different we are.

    The old saw...can't live with 'em & you can't live without 'em!

    OK, as a vivacious female my druthers would be... to have a lovely man (not just male) a lovely man about 2 to 8 yrs younger, not older because well, then he would be maybe a bit tired or dead well you know having trouble breathing!

    clarity

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    When I was in my early to mid twenties I dated older men, from 17 to 29 years older than me. It was fun for a while but it got old because I got tired of being treated like a little girl. One of the men would call me "little girl", another told me he wanted to marry me and I could keep my little career after we married. I felt like I was an old man magnet.

  • TD
    TD

    Can't see it.....How could you have an intelligent conversation with someone who doesn't remember a President before Bill Clinton?

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