Well, I am glad my brother called and forwarned me this was comming...I got to come on here and get so much good advise from you people luv ya!
It actually started Friday nite....my door bell was buzzing at 7pm, this time they parked their car so that they thought I couldn't see it but I climbed up my kitchen counter and could see the rear end of the car by peeking out that window. It was the same elder as before.
An hour after that: must be mom couldn't stand it anymore & she called me crying
CHG: mom...whats wrong?
mom: are you seeing him?
CHG: what are you talking about mom?
mom: the elders talked to me and said that they know you are seeing him and his car is there all the time, and they keep knocking and you refuse to answer them and you have some books listed on your myspace about cults?
CHG: whoa whoa whoa mom...who are you talking about?
mom: him.....the guy that owns the coffee shop...are you seeing him, is he staying there?
CHG: first of all, mom, I love you...I am so sorry that they elders have upset you. I have done nothing wrong. I am alone in my apartment right now (not a lie, CSG was working), there is no one staying here.
mom: what about the cars, they say he has changed his car & drives a different one now?
CHG: I don't know what you are talking about, there are at least three cars here at this apartment house. If the elders are trying to disfellowship me there is no evidence because I have done nothing wrong.
mom: are you seeing him?
CHG: I don't know what you are talking about, I wrote you a letter a year ago explaining my reasons for not comming to meetings. My lifestyle has not changed since that letter was written (thats the truth).
mom: so you are not seeing him?
CHG: No mom, you know and you have seen that when someone stops going to meetings lots of rumors start swirling around & people jump to conclusions.
mom: yea, so I will call the elders now and talk to them.
CHG: No mom, I would like to handle this myself/my way.
mom: What does your way mean?
CHG: it means my way. Mom I love you very much, I am so sorry that the elders hurt you like that.
mom: I love you too. I am so releaved, I have been sick with worry.
CHG: I want you to try and relax and get some sleep. I will see you tomorrow.
I will continue with part two. I am so glad I was calm and composed, I think my clear calm tone really helped to calm her down. By the end it didn't sound like she was crying.
CHG