BC No you don't make a choice! You don't have to and nobody can make you!!!!!
Whats in your heart?
If you believe in Jehovah,Yaweah, or just prefer to call him the God of Abraham, and if you believe in his ransom sacrifice Jesus, you can do this without someones permission. And the only way either one of them would tell you do abandon your family,I think anyway, would be if they were spawns of satan himself. Regardless of what the WTBTS may say to you we all have the gift of free will and the WTBTS may punish you in some way for not abiding by thier rules but that has nothing to do with anything other then your relationship with them. It has absolutely no effect in anyway shape or form what so ever on your relationship with Jehovah I DON"T CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS!!!
IF someone can whip out a book written by Einstein that suggests otherwise IT DON"T MEAN S%^T!
I'm done ranting now
Welcome newbie
plm