What's actually stated in the Watchtower society's literature that supports your claims as this is where Jehovah's Witnesses receive instruction.
Bold emphasis in the following quotations is mine.
Here is how the Custody Cases pamphlet says to answer questions about religious tolerance:
[Q] Will all Catholics (or others) be destroyed?
[A] Jehovah makes those judgements, not we.
[Q] Do you believe the Catholic (or other) Church is true or false?
[A] I believe its teachings are in error.
[Q] Do you respect other religions? If so, why do you go from house to house trying to convert people?
[A] The Bible has good news for people of all religions and backgrounds- - the good news that God will soon bring peace to earth through his Kingdom. We want to share this with our neighbors
[This one is for the children to answer:]
[Q] Have you been exposed to different religious views since youth? How has this affected you?
[A] Learned to be tolerant and appreciate divergence of opinions; while personally choosing teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses, have learned to respect others' right of choice.
But what does the Watchtower say? From page 47 of the Jan 15, 1976 issue:
"One thing hard for many people today to understand is that there can be and there is only one true religion. Why do they rebel against such fact? It is because all the other religions are false, and this would include their own religion ... in the midst of the world's greatest tribuation, all false religions will be wiped out and only the one true religion will survive."
This page was missing the title and page numbers, but it's relevant to both the religion questions and to spousal and parental alienation. I think it's from the Revelation book:
"That is not all there is to God's judgement against babylon the Great. Her final destruction is soon to come. (Revelation 18:21) ... How do we get out of Babylon the Great? This involves more than just severing ties with false religion ... To keep on the watch, it is vital that both in our actions and in the desires of our heart, we give evidence that we are truly separate from Babylon the Great in every way"
Here is how the Custody Cases pamphlet coaches children to testify in court about their activities and future plans:
"Be careful that they don't get the impression that they are in a demonstration at the circuit assembly, when they would show that the first things in life are service and going to the Kingdom Hall. Show hobbies, crafts, social activity, sports, and especially plans for the future. Be careful they don't all say that they are going to be pioneers."
Compare this to Watchtower April 15, 1986, the article "What Career Will You Choose" on page 30:
"Youths, how will you use your future? For yourselves or fully fof Jehovah? (Romans 12:8) Prayerfully consider the goal of full-time service now in your youth. Imitate Jesus by living the rest of your life 'for God's will.' (1 peter 4:2) It will prove to be a protection from harmful worldly ambitions, careers and associations. Analyze your circumstances and set a specific date as your goal for entering full-time service. Work toward it. Pray for Jehovah's help to attain it.--Ephesians 6:18"
This was emphasized in Awake May 8, 1989, in a similar article "What Career Should I Choose?" on page 12:
The prime obligation for Christians today is to preach the Kingom message. (Matthew 24:14) And youths who take seriously this obligation feel compelled to have as full a share in this work as possible--even if they are not naturally inclined toward preaching. (Compare 2 Corinthians 5:14.) Instead of pursuing full-time secular jobs, thousands have chosen to serve as full-time evangelizers (pioneers).
To bring this back to the original topic, the Watchtower does encourage lying on their behalf (and only theirs, it seems). From Watchtower May 1, 1957 page 286:
"So in time of sprititual warfare it is proper to misdirect the enemy by hiding the truth. It is done unselfishly; it does not harm anyone; on the contrary, it does much good.
Today God's servants are engaged in a warfare, a spiritual theocratic warfare, a warfare ordered by God against wicked spirit forces and false teachings."
This "Question from Readers" on page 703 of the November 15, 1952 Watchtower illustrates the alienation of non-Witness family members I referred to in the previous post:
"We are not living today among theocratic nations where such members of our fleshly family relationship could be exterminated for apostacy from God and his theocratic organization, as was possible and was ordered in the nation of Israel in the wilderness of Sanai and in the land of Palestine. 'Thou shalt surely kill him; thy hand shall be first upon him to put him to death, and afterward the hand of all the people.' "
"If children are of age and continue to associate with a disfellowshipped parent because of receiving material support from him or her, then they must consider how their spiritual interests are being endangered by continuing under this unequal arrangement ... material support should not make them compromise so as to ignore the disfellowshipped state of the parent ... the faithful family member must recognize and conform to the disfellowship order."
This is but a brief overview of these subjects. The articles on Freeminds are an excellent resource, with far more information than I can fit in this post.