Pimped by Grandma

by snowbird 12 Replies latest social entertainment

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    In 1958, when I was age 4, our mother was hospitalized in Selma, Alabama, 40 miles away from the backwoods of Wilcox County.

    Our maternal grandmother took me and two of my sisters to live with her during mother's hospitalization.

    The older girls were in school, so I had the long, lonely days to myself - no TV, no radio, no telephone, and worst of all, no books!

    My father taught me how to read at age 2, so I had to content myself with reading from the old newspapers and magazines with which g'ma plastered her walls. Since wallpaper was unaffordable, that was the way it was done in those days. However, the articles were not sequenced, so you can imagine my frustration at trying to piece together an interesting story.

    Each Wednesday afternoon, the little town would close down, and the plantation owner would come down to look over his property. It was rumored that he was very rich.

    Each Wednesday around mid-morning, g'ma would give me a scrub down in the #3 tin tub and dress me in my Sunday-go-meetin' finery. She would braid my hair and put snow-white ribbons at the end of the braids. White lace-trimmed socks and black Mary Janes, made smooth and shiny by applying a little lard, completed my ensemble.

    I was told by g'ma to sit on the little wooden bench on the front porch and threatened with a skinning if I so much as thought about disobeying. I was terrified of her, so I did just as I was told.

    When the owner drove by in his big car, he saw me and braked to a halt. He backed up and called to me to come to his car. I looked at g'ma and when she nodded approval, I skipped to his car, happy for a break in the monotonous day.

    The man asked my name and age and a couple of other things, which I readily supplied. I noticed that he had copies of several newspapers lying on the front seat - The Selma Times Journal, The Montgomery Advertiser, and The Wilcox Progressive Era.

    When he noticed my interest, the man jokingly asked if I would like to read the papers. I nodded enthusiastically. When he gave me one of the papers and I read the headlines to him, you could hear his peals of laughter a mile away.

    Staring at me as if I were a specimen in a laboratory, he ordered me to hold out both hands. I did, and he filled them with silver dollars. How many? I don't know; I gave them to g'ma, who passed them on to her son.

    That was how it went during the course of mama's hospitalization.

    My grandmother pimped me.

    Syl

  • Violia
    Violia

    Syl

    I am about your age and recall children had almost no protection at that time. Any adult could do just about anything to a child. Thankfully there are some changes.

    V

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    I know, Violia.

    The other day, I was telling the lady at work about it, and she said, "What if he had been a pedophile?"

    I said, "Exactly."

    Syl

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Geezus Sylvia..

    Your Creeping me out..

    I hope thats not your story..It`s extremely hard to read..

    ...................

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    It's my story, Outlaw.

    My g'ma knew that old fool well.

    She knew that he liked kids and wanted some of his own, but no woman could stand his eccentric ways.

    That's what I've been able to piece together, anyway.

    Incidentally, my g'ma also sternly chastised me for replying with a simple YES or NO to his questions.

    She said, "You are to answer 'Yes, sir' or 'No, sir' to him. That's a WHITE man!"

    I remember thinking, "My ribbons and socks are white. That man doesn't look anything like them."

    But, you didn't question your elders in those days.

    LOL.

    Syl

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Sylvia..

    I can`t imagine putting my GrandDaughter in that position..

    There would be serious consequenses for anyone who did that to her..

    http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/255252/2/istockphoto_255252-shovel-in-heap-of-dirt.jpg

    ..................... ...OUTLAW

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    ROFL!

    I know what you mean.

    I guess that's why I'm so protective of my g'kids!

    Syl

  • minimus
    minimus

    You call that being pimped out?? C'mon.

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    I didn't say anything about "out."

    The naked truth is my g'ma used me to get money for her sorry son.

    What's your definition of pimped?

    Syl

  • MidwichCuckoo
    MidwichCuckoo

    Don't be too hard on your Grandmother Snowbird. As you said, you learned to read at a VERY young age. Your grandmother was probably very proud of you (nope, I'm not condoning her 'using' you to obtain money for her son if that's what she did - or indeed using this man's generiosity) - a pretty, well turned out grandchild with skilful reading skills would probably have been someone she'd want to 'show off'?

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