While we're far and away better than all countries, we're not better than every country combined
Better in what respect, except military power? Income distribution? Personal freedoms? Environmental protection? Violent crime rates?
Have you actually _been_ to all countries, or at least more than two or three of them, and for more than just a brief visit?
With statements like the above (which I usually don't take as a sign of arrogance, but of simple ignorance), it's no wonder many people don't exactly have the best opinion of the USA. It's that belittling, "here's a dollar kid, buy yourself some ice cream" attitude that triggers a range of emotions from amused eyebrow-raising to vitriolic hate all over the world.
I expect better of Europeans.The thing I'd expect is that people stop thinking in terms of nations and their respective penis lengths. Generally, I think a huge step would be getting genuinely interested in what's happening outside of their little "best places in the world". As regards self-chosen ignorance of the outside world, I'm afraid that the USA are pretty much #1 at this time. The competition is fierce, though.
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