But if the universe was truly chaotic and without any form of order, we should have universes and galaxies colliding into one another
They do - if you think natural life on earth is violent and chaotic you should read astronomy - wow!
The idea that "not one of them is missing" is much mistaken. Our own galaxy is on a collision course with the Andromeda galaxy. You can see it with the naked eye on a clear night.
Why do you christians so blithley accept the carnage of the natural world s being god's inevitabel plan to maintain balance. Could he not have created a world where animals bred within sustainable limits and died peacefully at a time limit set by him? Watch an antelope being chased down by a pride of lions or a seal pup being used as a toy by a killer whale or a Sea Lion ripping apart the pups of a harem he has taken over and tell me it speaks of a loving god.