You dated her a couple of times? Why should you feel badly about other sites or be pressured to delete them? It's not like you're engaged.
i found the woman of my dreams!
by varian 26 Replies latest jw friends
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Satanus
Two steps forward, and one backward, is how i've heard dating described. Don't fight the backward step.
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BizzyBee
last weekend i had a date. i immidaiately fell in love.
This POV smacks of desperation or just poor judgment. When I was dating, guys who said stuff like this turned me off. So, you're "in love with me" without even taking the time to really know me? You have projected your ideal onto a person who is complex and unique and deserves to be known for herself, which can only be done over time. Thus, you come across as desperate or shallow or both. Personally, I would not have given you a second chance.
Take time to get to know and understand yourself and what you want in a partner. Slow down!
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BizzyBee
last weekend i had a date. i immidaiately fell in love.
This POV smacks of desperation or just poor judgment. When I was dating, guys who said stuff like this turned me off. So, you're "in love with me" without even taking the time to really know me? You have projected your ideal onto a person who is complex and unique and deserves to be known for herself, which can only be done over time. Thus, you come across as desperate or shallow or both. Personally, I would not have given you a second chance.
Take time to get to know and understand yourself and what you want in a partner. Slow down!
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SixofNine
Is this you: http://dallas.craigslist.org/dal/roo/2442419612.html ?
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Robdar
I'm with Scully and Jaimie. What was she doing searching other sites while she is dating you?
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WontLeave
Never let a woman in the driver's seat of a relationship! Sounds like a high-maintenance, nagger to me. She's going to have you apologizing and grovelling constantly, keeping you off-balance, and wielding all the power. Chances are, when she doesn't feel like she can walk all over a guy, she's out the door. You give her an inch and she'll shove her foot in your ass. I've seen these power struggle games and they don't bode well for the future. Flee before she gets you completely submitted, because a woman dominating a relationship never turns out well unless she's wearing thigh-high leather boots and answers to "Mistress".
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trevor
Not wishing to spoil the party but the only place you will find the woman of your dreams - is in your dreams.
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varian
thank you all.
her reason for checking out the other sites, begann when she noticed my log-in time at the site we both met. she basicly asked herself, why i am still active on that board although we are dating. i can´t blame her actually. the truth was, i didn´t use the site. i was just seeing whether she has a new message for me, that´s all.
that´s why she decided to check out other dating sites.
i think the best thing i can do is delete them in her presens, like some of you mentioned.
yrs varian