mouthy, you reminded me of one of my favorite poems when you said this:
But at 84 I can do what I ruddy well like.
I am trying to have the courage to do it NOW!
Love you granny ,,, and here's the poem, dedicated to you .... next, a Tommy vid
Warning - When I Am an Old Woman I Shall Wear Purple
By Jenny Joseph
When I am an old woman, I shall wear purple
with a red hat that doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
and satin candles, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I am tired
and gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
and run my stick along the public railings
and make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
and pick the flowers in other people's gardens
and learn to spit.
You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
and eat three pounds of sausages at a go
or only bread and pickles for a week
and hoard pens and pencils and beer nuts and things in boxes.
But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
and pay our rent and not swear in the street
and set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.
But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.
This is my favorite Tom Jones song, and I hope you like it ....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvJ_UmGw22M&playnext=1&list=PLF52F96F815AADDEB
xoxoxo and keep up the good works ...
tal