Ten years ago a single man in his early thirties ( never married/no kids) became an active study in the congregation (it was assumed he was working his way to baptism). He was good looking, I'll give him that. But that was all he had going for him. He was immature, playboy type & not at all 'spiritual'. So two single women in their 30s ( 1 was an acquaintance, the other was my friend - both active in the congregation). They both jumped on this guy like they'd been starving for years! He was a cad, so he was seeing both of them privately.
Then the women started fighting over him & gossiping about each other. My friend actually had all of us called to a private meeting so we could 'set the matter straight between them with me as the mediator. It was acquaintance girl, her mom, my friend & me.. So acquaintance girl is all upset because she had her hooks in 1st & my friend was brazenly trying to steal her boyfriend. They both aired their grievances about each other/the situation. The mom was saying " This is my daughter's chance to get married in the truth".
I was so shocked at the mentality of all of them. So I say, you both do realize that #1 this guy is not even baptised, #2 He is leading both of you on/playing with you both - he's the one who is lying, & #3 what kind of ' spiritual man" is texting dick pics? This guy is all around trash & yet you're both fighting over him?
The acquaintance girl is like - you don't know him like I do. Basically all this stupid drama because not one of them had an intelligent thought in their head!
Fast forward to years later & dude has dropped both of them & is seeing someone else & STILL not baptized!
