Welcome stray and I hope to read more posts from you. If you want to help your family and wife awaken, I would recommend that you read Steve Hassan's books (e.g., "Combatting Cult Mind Control") and visit his website www.freedomofmind.com. If you want to help your wife awaken more, you can try to get her involved in fun activities that will get her to met and make friends with "Worldly" people. The more time you spend with your wife doing fun things will help her believe that you love her. You could also write anonymous emails to your family and friends like I wrote about in http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/watchtower/beliefs/211893/1/Youe28099ve-Got-Mail-TM.
By the way have you seen the video of Ray Franz on youtube? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6c6I0fjiYNU&feature=related
Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,
ABibleStudent