Wanted: A few good men

by butalbee 42 Replies latest social relationships

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere
    I think eye contact is the best with an inviting smile

    Simon is right, we can't resist that... Try it while shopping, at the gas pump, eating at a cafe', when you show up at my front door. ;)

    Religion Stops a Thinking Mind!
    <x ><

  • butalbee
    butalbee

    What's your address, darling, I'll be there!!

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    [Thud] (Sound of me fainting)

    Religion Stops a Thinking Mind!
    <x ><

  • slipnslidemaster
    slipnslidemaster

    Hi. You're search is over. Email me some pictures.

    I'm hot and I'm hung like a tuna can.

    Let's get married.

    Slipnslidemaster:"Baywatch has enriched and, in many cases, helped save lives. I'm looking forward to the opportunity to continue with a project which has has such a significance for so many."
    - David Hasselhoff

  • MoeJoJoJo
    MoeJoJoJo

    Why not a book store/coffee shop like Barnes & Noble. Most likely the guys who hang out there are the intellectual type.

    I met my husband at a circuit assembly. You could try that.
    (Of course, I'm just kidding)

  • bitter mango
    bitter mango

    but ya never know til ya try butalbee

  • safe4kids
    safe4kids

    Only a few???!!! Are you kidding?? I want as many as I can get!

    Dana

  • cellomould
    cellomould

    I am quite available, butalbee...

    ... I live in Ca, however.

    cellomould

    "In other words, your God is the warden of a prison where the only prisoner is your God." Jose Saramago, The Gospel According to Jesus Christ

  • 4horsemen
    4horsemen

    BBee,

    Some places to try-

    1)Community college: Acting class, journalism class, art class. Some guys there that should not have too much of a problem expressing themselves.

    2)A not so trendy gym.

    3) Music store. A place that teaches lessons so you have to physically go there. Guitar is sexy.

    4) Toastmasters or similar. Professional men. Some con men too!

    5) Your town/city should have its own newspaper. You'd be suprised at the number of local clubs/events/gatherings. Choose one that piques your interest.

    6) Volunteer for something. Schools/Colleges, hospitals, charity, saving mother earth etc.

    7) Do you like fish? Do you fish? Do you know how to fish? Spend a day on a charter boat. I guarantee you'll meet lots of men. All ages, all backgrounds.

    8) Smile, say hi or excuse me and ask a question. Simple way to engage anyone in a conversation. If they have any interest to that is.

    Ive never understood this about women. They see a guy they may want to get to know better and then get passive? Hoping they start up a conversation? You dont want to appear what: sexually forward? desperate? pushy? I have been asked out three times by women. Interestingly enough they were all older than me though only by a couple years save the one I turned down. Two I said yes to. Perhaps, as you mature you get tired of waiting on chance? Men, I dont want to say are used to it, but we get shot down all the time. The decent guys you're looking for after awhile may get gun shy. I remember Brooke Shields once said that every guy she dated (not got asked out by) she had to make it "totally obvious I liked them" The braggarts, brigands, and brash jerks, makes no difference. They keep on trusting in the numbers game.

    Best of luck BB

  • Hmmm
    Hmmm

    Butalbee,

    If it makes you feel any better, many of us guys are in the same boat... the bars are meat markets, etc.

    I've heard that Internet Personals are a good way, but I can't get the picture of desperate, socially maladjusted people out of my head. Maybe it's my JW upbringing, but Personals seem so... 70s (Hey baby, what's your sign?). Then again, if someone asked me where to meet girls, I'd say "Pioneering."

    Hmmm

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