Howdy borgfree,
"Hathaway" ------ sounds familiar, but I don't recall him personally. I went to Irvington with Don Needham (long time pioneer), Don Sparks & Glen Kline. The Staileys were also - all the kids would be about your age (if I remember correctly, you're 30?) or a little older.
These men & their wives were the "Good People." And, they would have been considered such whether jw's or not. The jw's just made them closed-minded good people.
I remember Alan Gamble (currently Christian Park) also - from our work background. He's on the HLC and elder.
Enjoy your get-together - whatever it is!
waiting