This is very sad, Paul. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I lost my mother over a year ago. It's a terrible thing to go through.
I have a 90-something year old grandparent, and I know it won't be long before I'm having to deal with a JW funeral. It doesn't make the situation one bit easier.
Courage and peace to you as you get through the funeral. Sending you good thoughts. I *WILL* be thinking of you!
You are such an inspiration and have been so instrumental to so many. You deserve all the support there is at this tough time.