I got an invitation...

by Dudu 15 Replies latest jw friends

  • Dudu
    Dudu

    from my special pioneers friends to stay over a weekend with them in their house .... We ve been friends since forever and they arent aware that im not attending meetings or fading..... i will really miss my friends inside, should i go to their house?

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    If they were aware would you have been invited?

  • Dudu
    Dudu

    dont think so .....

  • Crisis of Conscience
    Crisis of Conscience

    If you don't mind faking. For me, I still would do it just for the social aspect. Otherwise, whatever.
    But think about how you might feel after being asked certain questions. Is it worth it mentally? If you don't care then I say go for it!

    CoC

  • Dudu
    Dudu

    I do care , thats the problem... and even worse i have a wordly bf but they dont know it !!

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    So again, would the stress be worth going?

  • Dudu
    Dudu

    no but they are one of the few ppl i will really miss

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Yeah, I feel your pain and I think you kinda answered your own question.

  • Dudu
    Dudu

    thank u mrsjones .... u are very sweet

  • Crisis of Conscience
    Crisis of Conscience

    I do my best to avoid "spiritual" conversations when I'm in that position or I remain vague in my answers.
    Overall, my "friends" don't live and breath the "truth".
    I think that's why I still stay socially active with many of them.
    But special pioneers means they really believe this stuff. Just avoid anything negative about their beliefs. If you do go, I think you'll be alright.

    CoC

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