got my divorce summons....wow it got even weirder

by oompa 17 Replies latest jw friends

  • oompa
    oompa

    we are both scared and we let each other know ......me for loosing a good woman twice in thirty years....both jw btw....her for losing me...

  • watersprout
    watersprout

    Awwww Oompa I sorry this is happening. Is there no way you can sort things out? It's just soo awful that that bastard cult has done this to your marriage.

    Peace

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    Bummer.

    Sorry to hear that.

  • N.drew
    N.drew

    I don't understand. Why don't you cope? Why doesn't she cope? Play pretend. Doesn't everyone pretend, more or less? My husband pretends he understands me and I need holy spirit to understand him....

  • wasblind
    wasblind

    Sorry to hear oompa,

    bein' in the land of plenty ( North Carolina ) that is

    i'm sure you'll find another to fill your heart

    I'm already taken, but I know you can do better

    than me anyway, cause my back done give out

    and my knees ain't to far behind hugs to ya oompa

  • Morbidzbaby
    Morbidzbaby

    Ugh *sigh*. I'm so sorry. Divorce sucks, even when you don't love the person anymore...I can only imagine how it is when you do!

    I really have no advice, dear...only to say that it does get better, the pain does dull and eventually go away, and then you heal and are ready to move on...whether to someone or someTHING better.

    *hugs*

  • cantleave
    cantleave

    So sorry!

  • Band on the Run
    Band on the Run

    I feel like crying b/c you care. You aren't writing a nasty vent about horrid your wife is. If you both have so much to lose, perhaps you can negotiate an arrangement that involves only the two of you, the actual marriage partners. If she is JW< where is she ever going to find an available partner? You can face a temporarily partnerless future more than she can.

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    wait u r both feeling regrets? so why the divorce?

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    wait u r both feeling regrets? so why the divorce? .....WH

    Good Question

    .......................;-)...OUTLAW

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