That's my wife's canned "encouragement" for me lately. Odd, I haven't named any people that have caused me any distress lately. If anything, it's the organization itself, specifically the business end of it, that bothers me.
The legal posturing as concerns individual congregations actions in matters that could escalate into courtroom matters,
the building and maintenance of Kingdom Halls and Assembly Halls, (ie; the money involved)
the way that notes in the margins of the elder's handbook (conveyed at CO visits) carry more weight than the actual print.
I'm thinking that I have every right to look at the actual people anyhow! "By this you will know them..." you know the rest of that one.
I have been irregular and now inactive and the elders have an idea why, but will they approach me to help? nope!