Sizemik...
I don't think I'm on any DNC list so I'm looking forward to the next attempt for my salvation. I'm going to offer their poor tired souls a seat on my outdoor furniture . . . and make them a nice hot cup of tea. The tea will require at least 10 min to cool down. Then I'm going to ask them to read Luke 21;8 and explain how I could ever obey that and join their religion at the same time. Then I'm going to calmly listen to what they have to say. Should be a good time for everybody.
That really made me laugh! Thank you. Perhaps we should design remote-controlled mugs that keep the tea at scalding temperatures for as long as you like. When you feel you have put your point across sufficiently, simply press a button under your chair that allows the temperature of the tea to begin its 10 minute descent towards room temperature, and then the freshly bewildered publishers can drink up, make their excuses and leave. Perfect! I'm not sure why I chuckled so much, but I did.
On a serious note, I'm pretty sure the behaviour described in the OP isn't typical of the current direction of the Society, so from that perspective NO - they're not getting soft. Judging by the increasingly outrageous statements in the Watchtower, they're getting increasingly fanatical if anything.
Cedars