The sister who is disfellowshipped and had a moment of weakness said "Go to Hell"..that will never happen.
Sounds like a moment of strength, not a moment of weakness.
I would have turned around and left that restaurant with my baby. Or I would have given THEM the choice (and sat down for lunch or whatever myself)... "visit with US BOTH, or don't visit with either of us. Your choice."
Ridiculous.
Peace,
Tammy