lamallcool They are all male frauds because they have no balls and hide behind "the rules"
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Blackballed by the Elders
by Hangin_on 22 Replies latest jw friends
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JRK
hangin_on,
Just leave, you don't need the bullshit.
He only has power over you if you let him have it.
JK
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Aussie Oz
Some 'shepherd'!
Oz
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punkofnice
I'm gonna hate saying this and you're gonna hate me saying it too. If you must stay in the cult then apply a WBT$ favourite:-
Matt 18:15, 16
Either that or as suggested previously simply leave. Get the hell out of that cancer. Run and don't look back.
So, either speak to the over-sneer or get the heck out. I'd choose the latter.
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trueblue
Blackballed by the Elders then skip Mathew 15 and 16...and half of 17
15 “Moreover, if your brother commits a sin, go lay bare his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. 16 But if he does not listen, take along with you one or two more, in order that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every matter may be established. 17 If he does not listen to them, speak to the congregation. If he does not listen even to the congregation, let him be to you just as a man of the nations and as a tax collector.
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rebel8
- Buy a gay porn magazine.
- Buy labels that look like mailing labels. Print the elder's name and mailing address on it in Courier Font , with some bar codes and other stuff that makes it look like an actual mailing label.
- Stick label on the magazine.
- Crumple up the magazine and label a bit so it looks like it has been through the mail and then read.
- Leave it in the stall in the men's room.
- Get a small notebook that would fit in a suit jacket pocket and write the elder's name on it.
- Write a bunch of salacious notes in it that make it appear as though the elder wrote them about the publishers. Date them and ensure they accuse the publishers of things they are innocent of.
- Leave it in the kh immediately prior to a scheduled kh cleaning.
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Quandry
I went back and read some of your previous posts. Did you and your wife get reinstated? How are the parents treating you? Are you still attending the KHall? If the answers are yes, it all must be extremely hard for you. Perhaps you need to stay "in" for family reasons. Don't you have a child now?
Know that once you have been in the "back room" the edlers don't look at you the same way. They are wary...and may look for opportunities to bully you.
After reading so much on this forum, how do you feel about the WTS now?
Hoping the best for you
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finally awake
I wonder if this is basically what happened to my husband and me. For the last couple of years, every time we invited someone to do something with us socially, there was always an excuse or a promise of "let's try to do something later" with no follow through. I was always puzzled by how everyone was far too busy to have dinner with us, when I knew they were going to ball games, movies, etc with other people. The one and only person who ever invited us anywhere was the COBOE and even he had gotten "too busy" lately.
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trueblue
Same with me, go to meetings all by myself and sometimes someone would ask "did you go to the assymbly? you missed a good one" ya like I like going places by myself, the thoughtless bastards, they quit asking me to parties but when they did it was always tell me were the party is not who I would like to go with, and when I went I set there by myself and I would just leave, and quit going altogether... I quit going to there meetings too because I barely have time to go not to mention no time to spare for a defense for their idiot alligations.
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rebel8
Get some Easter candy before Easter, say, a Peep. Open the wrapper and take a bite. Put the remainder in his briefcase, sticking out, just prior to the meeting. Be sure to leave the entire wrapper in there so it makes noise.
Get one of those singing birthday cards. Remove the chip. Place it in the bottom of his briefcase just before the meeting.
Buy a condom; remove it from the wrapper (reserve for another purpose). Place the wrapper neatly inside his bible before the meeting.
Place a swearing pen in his car or briefcase. He'll think it's his and use it, unsuspectingly.
Remote control fart machine. Enough said.
Place 1 sardine in his briefcase, preferably in a rarely-used pocket.
Record a voice whispering his name with haunted house noises in the background. Place it in the basement of the kh. Push play right before the meeting.