GARY: Incidentally, my F-I-L was not aware of any selection in 1919 but said that he would look it up for me.
Gary, see what I mean? You will have to teach them their own religion's doctrines before you can then prove to them that the doctrine is wrong. And then, that still won't make any difference because they will rationalize it all in some other way -- Where else would I go? Who else has the basic teachings of Truth? (such as hellfire, immortality of the soul, paradise earth, etc)
Not until a JW has had something happen to them personally, that destroys their own little "spiritual paradise" world will their blinders ever come off so that they can see the Big Picture of things. It takes the finger in their own eyeball to wake them up. Otherwise, they'll go on and on in their delusional little WT world.
But at that time -- when that happens -- they are most likely to recall all the seeds of doubt that were planted along the way....... At that point, they will begin to question WHAT ELSE is wrong in WT World....... At that time, they will stay up late some night so they won't get caught, and they will Google the things that were once unmentionable/unthinkable to them. BAM! The blinders have started to fall!
So, DO continue to plant those seeds. You're in a position that many/most of us are not in. We cannot speak openly and raise doubting questions, either because we are DFd/DAd and no one will listen; or, we can't risk waving the red flags of apostacy around and draw attention to ourselves.
DOC