Hi NC. Your analogy was well expressed. It's one way of looking at freedom of choice.
But God is smart and knows people behave differently if they are watched. So he allows people to make their own choices about some things without telling them those choices will affect the ultimate outcome.
God also knows some people don't know what they really want. So he gives them time to discover themselves, once they've done that, then they can make an "informed" choice.
Additionally, man and his own distorted views make God seem cruel sometime. Very specirfic to your analogy is the issue of masturbation. Jehovah created man to enjoy having sex with himself until he gets married. You can tell by the placement or the clitoris that it was meant for masturbation rather than interourse. But the sexually hung-up religious leaders are teaching masturbation is wrong and evil. So that fits your scenario where God puts something in front of us, the sex drive, the temptation to satisfy that sex drive, but if we do, we're punished. Only God expects you to enjoy yourself masturbating--the idea it is wrong or bad comes from Satan's corrupt propaganda system. The result is we blame God for being unjust.
But to be fair, if we use your analogy based on Eden, you would surprise your daughter with 1500 dolls of all kinds of which she could play with and touch. But to test her obedience and love, you would tell her one doll was not to be touched, only looked at. It was very important not to touch this doll because if you did, you would die. It was a poisonous doll. Your scenario, IMHO, sounds like God created man and the need to eat and the only food available was the forbidden fruit. That's not quite the case.
Thanks for sharing your view though. A lot of how we feel about God depends on what we attribute to him, which might not always be accurate.
LS