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TRAIN OTHERS TO REACH OUT
“Everyone that is perfectly instructed will be like his teacher.”—LUKE 6:40.
OPENING COMMENTS
Several years ago, I said that fewer male children of jws were getting baptized, or becoming MS, and there were more ex-elders who were not interested in getting back in the hassle, congregations with 5 elders and 8 ex-elders, only one MS and he would never qualify, could not read. Ten years later, it is even worse, and the WTS is hurting with MS and elders average over 55 years of age.
START OF ARTICLE
1. During his earthly ministry, how did Jesus lay
the foundation for a remarkable congregation?
CONCLUDING his Gospel account, the
apostle John wrote: “There are, in fact,
many other things also which Jesus did,
which, if ever they were written in full detail,
I suppose, the world itself could not contain
the scrolls written.” (John 21:25) Among all
the things that Jesus accomplished during
his short but dynamic ministry was the locating,
training, and organizing of men who
would take the lead after his earthly sojourn.
When he returned to heaven in 33 C.E., Jesus
left behind the foundation of a remarkable
congregation that would quickly number
into the thousands.—Acts 2:41, 42; 4:4;
6:7.
COMMENTS
Was Jesus sent to find, train, and organize males?
*** w08 2/15 p.12 par.2***
Jesus can be called the greatest Missionary, the ultimate Missionary, because one reason why he was sent to earth was to “bear witness to the truth.” (John 18:37) He was completely successful in proclaiming the good news of the Kingdom, and the benefits of his service are still available to us.
(John 18:37) . . .For this I have been born, and for this I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth. . . .
(Luke 4:43) But he said to them: “Also to other cities I must declare the good news of the kingdom of God, because for this I was sent forth.”
How is it that jw males can “take the lead” without being considered “leaders”?
What were the male Christians commissioned to do; be administrators or preach directly to people like Jesus did?
(Hebrews 13:17) . . .Be obedient to those who are taking the lead among YOU and be submissive, . . .
(Matthew 23:10) Neither be called ‘leaders,’ for YOUR Leader is one, the Christ.
Not to worry, the WTS using words such as “apparently” and “evidently” could and has added to the bible.
Did not Jesus train women, such as Martha and Mary, the sisters of Lazarus? Didn’t they also preach about Jesus and the kingdom? What did Jesus feel was important, having men that acted as “leaders” or “preachers”?
2, 3. (a) Why is there a pressing need for baptized
men to reach out? (b) What will be considered in
this article?
2 With more than seven million active Kingdom
proclaimers in over 100,000 congregations worldwide
today, there continues to be a need for men to
take the lead in spiritual matters. For instance,
Christian elders are greatly needed. Those who
reach out for this privilege of service are to be
commended, for they are “desirous of a fine work.”
—1 Tim. 3:1.
COMMENTS
In my day, men no longer wanted to be elders; to deal with the pressure; to be abused by other elders verbally and emotionally, which is when I left 10 years ago there were only 5 elders but 8 ex-elders, all who stepped down to get away from the pressure. Now they have to import elders from other states and cities.
7 million = only jws and mostly women, at least 63%. Men to take the lead in setting up the stage? Sound? Microphones? Handling territory cards? Help the elders record time slips? Handling the timer at the TMS?
For years a sister audited the congregation finances, because she was a financial officer at a bank….until the CO decided a male had to do it; and promptly screwed it up.
3 However, men do not automatically
qualify for privileges in the congregation.
Mere secular education or life experience
does not prepare a man for this kind of work.
To serve properly in such a capacity, a man
must qualify spiritually. More than abilities
or accomplishments, he must have spiritual
qualities. How can men in the congregation
be helped to qualify? “Everyone that is perfectly
instructed will be like his teacher,” said
Jesus. (Luke 6:40) In this article, we will consider
some of the ways in which the Master
Teacher, Jesus Christ, helped his disciples to
qualify for greater responsibility, and we will
see what lessons we can draw from what he
did.
COMMENTS
What are the qualifications? Did you know that meeting the national average of hours was the most frequent one that was used, 10 hours/month? Where in the bible is that? Can elders be heavy drinkers/alcoholics—not officially, but if a BOE is careful, they can conceal this flaw in a member. In one congregation the COBOE, had been an elder for 40 years and racked up 5 DUIs. It wasn’t until it made the newspapers, that he was removed.
How many theoretical qualifications have you seen? Actions speak louder than words.
What greater responsibility could there be than preaching about the kingdom?
“I Have Called You Friends”
4. How did Jesus show himself to be a real friend to
his disciples?
4 Jesus treated his disciples as friends,
not as inferiors. He spent time with them,
took them into his confidence, and ‘made
known to them all the things he had heard
from his Father.’ (Read John 15:15.) Imagine
how thrilled they were when Jesus answered
their question: “What will be the
sign of your presence and of the conclusion
of the system of things?” (Matt. 24:3, 4)
He also shared with his followers his private
thoughts and feelings. On the night of
his betrayal, for instance, Jesus took Peter,
James, and John into the garden of Gethsemane,
where he prayed earnestly from his
troubled heart. The three apostles may not
have heard what Jesus was saying in prayer,
but they must have sensed the gravity of the
occasion. (Mark 14:33-38) Think, too, of the
impact that the transfiguration must have
had earlier on the three. (Mark 9:2-8; 2 Pet.1:
16-18) The intimate friendship that Jesus
forged with his disciples was an anchor for
them as they later cared for weighty assignments.
COMMENTS
“Jesus treated his disciples as friends, not as inferiors”
How does the WTS view elders in relation to the rank and file?
CHIEFTAINS
*** w99 3/1 p.16 par.14***
Clearly, the chieftain has some responsibility among God’s people . In the outer courtyard, he sits in the porch of the East Gate. (Ezekiel 44:2, 3) This would indicate a position of oversight, similar to that of the older men in Israel who sat at the gate of the city and rendered judgment. (Ruth 4:1-12; Proverbs 22:22) Who among the other sheep hold offices of oversight today? Elders with an earthly hope who have been appointed by holy spirit. (Acts 20:28) So the chieftain class is now being groomed with the prospect of later serving in an administrative capacity in the new world.
PRINCES
*** Close To Jehovah book cl chap. 16 p. 164 par. 16 ***
All of us have a responsibility to exercise justice, but elders in the Christian congregation especially have a responsibility in this regard. Notice the prophetic description of “princes,” or elders, recorded by Isaiah: “Look! A king will reign for righteousness itself; and as respects princes, they will rule as princes for justice itself.” (Isaiah 32:1)
DOUBLE HONOR
Why double honor to the elders? Does that mean that men who are not elders and women are not working hard in the congregation?
“he took them into his confidence”
Does this mean that the elders are to share confidential information with MS to groom them to be elders?
“he also shared with his followers his private thoughts and feelings”
Did Jesus share these with women? Do the men in the congregation do the same with the sisters?
“may not have” “must have sensed” “must have”—the bible does not say but we the WTS has inside information?
Are elders allowed to have intimate friendships with sisters; who is, other women who are not qualified spiritually per the WTS?
Do women have weighty assignments, are they qualified—Priscilla, Lydia, anointed women were to be in heaven as priests and kings with Jesus!!!
5. What are some ways in which Christian elders
can make themselves available to others?
5 Like Jesus, Christian elders today befriend
and help others. They cultivate a
warm, close relationship with their fellow
believers by taking time to show personal
interest in them. While elders recognize
the importance of confidentiality, they
are not secretive. Elders trust their brothers
and share with them Scriptural truths they
themselves have learned. By no means do elders
treat as inferior a ministerial servant
who may be comparatively young. Instead,
they think of him as a spiritual man with potential
who is performing a valuable service
in behalf of the congregation.
COMMENTS
I rarely had an elder even say hello to me but any but his inner circle of friends. Or the ones who say “how are you” as they quickly walk past you not bothering to hear your response. They barely know your name, how many children you have, their names, how long you have been a jw, etc. Is this showing a personal interest. I remember an older couple would had been on vacation for 2 weeks and were chastised by an elder for missing the meetings because he assumed the worst.
We rarely saw the inside of the homes of the elders despite having had them over for meals many times. Warm—how about the ones that approached you with a perceived sin conveyed by their wife and other close friend as if you were guilty until found innocent and then being peeved when it wasn’t true…warm?
Elders and confidentiality…means there is always one elder that always tells his wife and she tells others. Or the elders who share judicial information with elders not on the JC or elders in other congregations who figure if they do not use names, no one knows who they are talking about.
Do elders treat MS as inferiors…but they give them all the crap jobs and never thank them after all “we are all good-for-nothing slaves doing what we ought.” MS are certainly not worthy of “double honor.”
So who are elders told to befriend, males in the congregation, esp ms…
Did the elders in your congregation trust you?
Spiritual women doing valuable service—the preaching work, what Jesus came to do not be an administrator
“I Set the Pattern for You”
6, 7. Describe the example Jesus set for his disciples
and the effect this had on them.
6 Although Jesus’ disciples had appreciation
for spiritual things, their thinking was
sometimes influenced by their background
and culture. (Matt. 19:9, 10; Luke 9:46-48;
John 4:27) However, Jesus did not lecture or
threaten his disciples. He neither burdened
them with unreasonable demands nor advised
them to do one thing while he himself
did something else. Rather, Jesus taught
them by example.—Read John 13:15.
COMMENTS
Do elders or COs, or DOs, lecture or threaten the rank and file? Can you think of one situation in your case?
Burden with unreasonable demands; can you think of one?
Rules in the WTS
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/200009/1/Name-Some-Stupid-Organization-Congregation-Rules
Advised them to do one thing while he himself did something else
Elders with big houses, cars, take expensive vacations—yet tell congregation not to be materialistic
Can you think of one?
Jesus did not lecture and threaten—one COBOE in this area told the elders that now he was the COBOE, it was his way or the highway
7 What kind of model did Jesus leave for
his disciples? (1 Pet. 2:21) He kept his life
simple so that he could freely minister to
others. (Luke 9:58) Jesus was modest and always
based his teaching on the Scriptures.
(John 5:19; 17:14, 17) He was approachable
and kind. Love was the motivation for everything
he did. (Matt. 19:13-15; John 15:12) Jesus’
example had a positive influence on his
apostles. For instance, James did not cower
in the face of death but until he was executed,
loyally served God. (Acts 12:1, 2) John
faithfully followed in Jesus’ footsteps for
more than 60 years.—Rev.1:1, 2, 9.
COMMENTS
So do/did the elders in your congregation(s) keep a simple life; did they own a home (Jesus had no where to put his head); owned one set of clothes, and walked everywhere (no fancy cars).
Are elders approachable or so busy with administrative and “judicial” chores they put you off or if you complain to the co are told that the elders are busy doing important tasks.
8. What example do elders set for younger men
and others?
8 Elders who are self-sacrificing, humble,
and loving provide the kind of example that
younger men need. (1 Pet. 5:2, 3) Moreover,
elders who are exemplary in faith, in teaching,
in Christian living, and in the ministry
experience the satisfaction of knowing that
others can imitate their faith.—Heb.13:7.
COMMENTS
ARE ELDERS EXEMPLARY IN THE MINISTRY, THE DOOR TO DOOR WORK? When was the last time they worked with a sister or even a brother. I knew many that only went with their family…no training for anyone else. Did Jesus focus on his “fleshly” family? What happens to alcoholic elders, abusive elder husbands, etc. Are others blamed and they stay in their exalted positions? I know an elder that is on his 3 rd wife…yes, reproved but appointed after just 5 years, they are desperate for elders.
‘Giving Them Orders, Jesus Sent Them Forth’
9. How do we know that Jesus trained his disciples
to carry out the evangelizing work?
9 After zealously engaging in his ministry
for about two years, Jesus expanded the
preaching activity by sending out his 12
apostles to preach. First, though, he gave
them instructions. (Matt. 10:5-14) When
about to feed a crowd of thousands miraculously,
Jesus told his disciples how he wanted
them to organize the people and distribute
the food. (Luke 9:12-17) Clearly, then, Jesus
trained his disciples by giving them clear
and specific direction. This pattern of training,
coupled with the powerful influence of
holy spirit, later equipped the apostles to organize
the extensive preaching work that
took place in 33 C.E. and thereafter.
COMMENTS
HOW MANY YEARS DID JESUS HAVE, 3 ½ YEARS. What kind of training do the elders give the rank in file, do they set the example by going with them door to door, including women and children?
Do they follow the WTS DIRECTIONS?
*** w06 5/1 pp.18-19 par.6 Shepherds Who Are “Examples to the Flock”***
Loving Christian shepherds endeavor to show personal interest in each sheep in the congregation. (Philippians 2:4) One way shepherds become better acquainted with individual sheep is by working side by side with them in the public preaching work. Jesus often had his followers with him in the preaching work and used such occasions to give encouragement. (Luke 8:1) One experienced Christian shepherd says: “I find that one of the best ways to get to know and encourage a brother or a sister is by working with him or her in the field ministry.”
10, 11. In what ways can progressive training be
provided for new ones?
10 Today, spiritual instruction begins
when a man accepts a Bible study. We may
need to help him to read well. Our assistance
continues as we conduct Bible studies with
him. When he starts to attend Christian
meetings regularly, his spiritual training will
progress as he participates in the Theocratic
Ministry School , becomes an unbaptized
publisher, and so forth. After baptism, his
training can include such things as helping
with Kingdom Hall maintenance. In time, a
brother can be helped to see what he needs
to do to qualify as a ministerial servant.
COMMENTS
I was in a congregation where 2 men were appointed as ms, neither could read and never did to the day they died. They memorized what the elders had them say on the platform, their talks were composed by elders. Neither one would learn to read, too prideful.
11 When giving a baptized brother an assignment,
an elder gladly explains the relevant
organizational procedures and provides
needed instruction. The brother being
trained must understand what is expected of
him. If he is struggling with what he is asked
to do, a loving elder does not quickly conclude
that he is not qualified. Rather, the elder
kindly points out the specific areas of
concern and reviews the goals and procedures.
Seeing men respond positively to
such efforts and thus experience the joy that
comes from serving others is a source of
happiness to the elders.—Acts 20:35.
COMMENTS
So did Jesus say his followers would be known by their organizational procedures? What did he say to the religious administrators of his time? Did Jesus stress love or rules?
Matthew 15:9 It is in vain that they keep worshiping me, because they teach commands
of men as doctrines.’ ”
John 13:34 I am giving YOU a new commandment, that YOU love one another; just as I have loved YOU, that YOU also love one another. 35 By this all will know that YOU are my disciples, if YOU have love among yourselves.” (not be known as great administrators)
Do elders see themselves as “servants” or “princes”?
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“The One Listening to Counsel Is Wise”
12. What made Jesus’ counsel effective?
12 Jesus trained his disciples by providing
personal counsel tailored to their needs. For
example, he rebuked James and John for
wanting to call down fire from heaven on
some Samaritans who had not received him.
(Luke 9:52-55) When the mother of James
and John approached Jesus on their behalf
to ask that they be granted favored positions
in the Kingdom, Jesus addressed the brothers
directly, saying: “This sitting down at my
right hand and at my left is not mine to give,
but it belongs to those for whom it has been
prepared by my Father.” (Matt. 20:20-23) At
all times, Jesus gave counsel that was clear,
practical, and solidly based on godly principles.
He taught his disciples to reason on
such principles. (Matt. 17:24-27) Jesus also
recognized the limitations of his followers
and did not expect perfection from them.
His counsel was motivated by genuine love.
—John 13:1.
COMMENTS
Of course the elders never suck up to the CO to get the “privilege” of giving main talks at the assemblies and conventions, not.
Who is more likely to be appointed someone who came into the WTS as an adult or an elder’s son?
So what was the “godly principle” that led to brothers not being able to wear anything but white shirts? When we left only 10 years ago, the last congregation gave up this edict. Are brothers still required to wear white shirts for assemblies and conventions?
Remember the COBOE that said it was his way or the highway, where was the love in that statement?
13, 14. (a) Who needs counsel? (b) Give examples
of what personal counsel an elder may offer to
someone who is not progressing spiritually.
13 Every man who reaches out for responsibility
in the Christian congregation needs
counsel or Scriptural advice at one time or
another. “The one listening to counsel is
wise,” states Proverbs 12:15. “I found that
my biggest challenge was dealing with my
own imperfections,” says one young brother.
“The advice of an elder put this into proper
perspective for me.”
COMMENTS
What if the counsel is not scripturally based? Or is one elder’s personal opinion? I encountered several congregations where the elders lied regularly to the rank and file supposedly to protect God’s reputation, but rather it was the own (CYA).
14 If elders observe that some questionable
conduct is retarding a man’s spiritual
progress, they take the initiative to readjust
him in a spirit of mildness. (Gal. 6:1) At
times, counsel is needed because of some
personality trait. If a brother seems somewhat
self-sparing, for example, an elder may
find it helpful to point out that Jesus was a
zealous Kingdom proclaimer who commissioned
his followers to make disciples. (Matt. 28:19, 20;
Luke 8:1) If a brother appears ambitious,
an elder might show him how Jesus
helped His disciples to see the dangers of
seeking prominence. (Luke 22:24-27) What
if a brother has a tendency to be unforgiving?
The illustration of the slave who refused
to forgive a small debt even though
he himself had been forgiven much more
would make a powerful point. (Matt. 18:21-35)
When counsel is needed, it is good for
the elders to provide it at the earliest opportunity.—
Read Proverbs 27:9.
COMMENTS
“questionable conduct” what would that be: pornography, masturbation,
or not making the unscriptural 10-hour requirement.= self-sparing
ambitious, unforgiving===I can think of ten elders that were ambitious and unforgiving and there were no elders “helping” because they were just as bad.
Earliest opportunity—waiting 40 years to counsel an alcoholic PO
“Be Training Yourself”
15. How can a man’s family help him to serve others?
15 The elders take the lead in training men
to reach out, but others can support their efforts. For
instance, a man’s family can and
should help him to reach out. And if he already
is an elder, he will benefit from the
support of a loving wife and unselfish children.
Their willingness to share him with
the congregation is essential if he is to succeed
in shouldering his responsibility. Their
self-sacrificing spirit brings him joy and is
greatly appreciated by others.—Prov. 15:20;
31:10, 23.
COMMENTS
Family help by not expecting their father to spend time with them, train them, doing all the home duties inside and out. I know several elder’s families where the wife and children are all out of the organization due to the years of neglect by the father/husband.
16. (a) The primary responsibility to reach out
rests with whom? (b) How can a man reach out for
privileges in the congregation?
16 Although others can help and support
him, the primary responsibility for reaching
out rests with the man himself. (Read Galatians
6:5.) Of course, a brother does not
have to be a ministerial servant or an elder
in order to help others and have a full
share in the ministry. However, reaching
out for privileges in the congregation does
mean striving to meet the qualifications set
out in the Scriptures. (1 Tim. 3:1-13; Titus
1:5-9; 1 Pet. 5:1-3) So if a man desires
to serve as a ministerial servant or an
elder but has not yet been appointed to
be one, he should give attention to areas
where he needs to make spiritual advancement.
This calls for regular Bible reading, diligent
personal study, serious meditation,
heartfelt prayer, and zealous participation in
the Christian ministry. In such ways, he can
personally apply Paul’s counsel to Timothy:
“Be training yourself with godly devotion as
your aim.”—1 Tim. 4:7.
COMMENTS
“Of course, a brother does not
have to be a ministerial servant or an elder
in order to help others and have a full
share in the ministry.”
Many ex-elders reason this way seeing that preaching was the mission of Jesus not administrating. They can do what Jesus wanted without being elders. Jesus had no expectations of being a king or a priest until he returned to heaven not like the elders to day who are told that they are “princes” and will judge people on earth at JCs.
“This calls for regular Bible reading, diligent
personal study, serious meditation,
heartfelt prayer, and zealous participation in
the Christian ministry.”
This is expected of all Christians, even women who will never be appointed elders or MS. How many people are jws because a sister called on their door rather than men?
Why is teaching from the platform more important than teaching an individual one-on-one?
Men and women in the first century must have demonstrated the exact same qualifications to be anointed. Why then are women viewed as second class Christians?
(Galatians 3:26-29) 26 YOU are all, in fact, sons of God through YOUR faith in Christ Jesus. 27 For all of YOU who were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. 28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor freeman, there is neither male nor female; for YOU are all one [person] in union with Christ Jesus. 29 Moreover, if YOU belong to Christ, YOU are really Abraham’s seed, heirs with reference to a promise.
What training can you provide your Bible student as
he seeks to make progress?
17, 18. What can a baptized brother do if anxiety,
feelings of inadequacy, or a lack of motivation holds
him back?
17 But what if a man is not reaching out because
of anxiety or feelings of inadequacy?
He would do well to consider how much Jehovah
God and Jesus Christ do for us. Indeed,
Jehovah “daily carries the load for us.”
(Ps. 68:19) So our heavenly Father can help a
brother to take on responsibility in the congregation.
A brother who is not serving as a
ministerial servant or an elder will also find it
beneficial to consider the fact that there is a
great need for mature men to accept privileges
of service in God’s organization. Reflecting
on such points may move a brother
to put forth effort to overcome negative feelings.
He can pray for holy spirit, bearing in
mind that its fruitage includes peace and
self-control—qualities needed to dispel anxiety
or feelings of inadequacy. (Luke 11:13;
Gal. 5:22, 23) And one can be fully confident
that Jehovah blesses all who reach out with a
proper motive.
COMMENTS
Do men in the congregation feel inadequate or are made to feel inadequate? I know one brother that was made an MS but was told by one elder that as long as that elder lived, this MS would never be an elder, disliking him personally. Even in another congregation, this elder directs the previous BOE not to appoint this brother. So many ex-elders and MS have experienced the emotional and spiritual abuse in so many congregations.
Who judges what is a proper motive? Can elders read hearts? How is it that alcoholics, pedophiles, and wife abusers get appointed?
18 Could it be that a lack of motivation is
preventing a baptized man from reaching
out? What can help a brother who lacks the
desire to serve? The apostle Paul wrote:
“[God], for the sake of his good pleasure, is
acting within you in order for you both to
will and to act.” (Phil. 2:13) The desire to
serve is God-given, and Jehovah’s spirit can
strengthen a person to render sacred service.
(Phil. 4:13) Moreover, a Christian can pray
that God will make him do what is right.
—Ps. 25:4, 5.
COMMENTS
Lack of motivation—once an brother I knew became an elder, he experienced the abuse purposely levied against new elders to get them in shape. He was told that the BOE was guided by the elder’s manual, not the Bible (no kidding). This was the same elder that held up the WT at the study and asked, “what are our beliefs based on”?
Or the ex-Bethelite CO who came in and removed 20 elders who were in their 60’s and 70’s who never had said “how high” when the WTS said “jump.”
19. Of what does the raising up of “seven shepherds,
yes, eight dukes” assure us?
19 Jehovah blesses the efforts of older men
to train others. His blessing is also experienced
by those who respond and reach out
for privileges in the congregation. The Scriptures
assure us that among God’s people
“seven shepherds, yes, eight dukes”—the
required number of capable men—will be
raised up to take the lead in Jehovah’s organization.
(Mic. 5:5)What a blessing it is that
so many Christian men are being trained
and are humbly reaching out for privileges
of service to Jehovah’s praise!
COMMENTS
So God does not bless non-MS and non-elders, women and children?
How can men show that they are reaching out?
How Would You Answer?
How did Jesus help his disciples to
qualify for greater responsibility?
How can elders imitate Jesus as
they help men in the congregation
to take the lead?
What part does a man’s family play
in helping him to reach out?
What can a man himself do to reach
out for privileges?
CONCLUDING COMMENTS
Sorry, it has been getting harder to swallow this. I was an elder’s wife for many years and saw the abuse.
NEXT WEEK, IS HE A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR YOU OR A WARNING? (How to learn from an OT non-Christian)
Love, Blondie