To me (and many, many others) there is only ONE IMPORTANT THING... My sweet, faithful, loyal-to-the-death JW mom died -- thinking she was 'making Jah smile'.
She & almost all of my JW relatives still believed that Lie. They are proud that she has ensured her place in the resurrection, and they want to be there for her!
But, MrBunyRabbit, here is the point I know you will take to heart...a few months after her horrible, smothering useless death...The Watchtower Corporation executives made another change to their Human Sacrifice Program -- they started allowing the transfusion of hemoglobin.
A simple "conscience matter". We never got a "Thank You for your Sacrifice of Sis. please fill in blank " or even some Posey's. They do not care. They never have.
The sheer amount of factual information you've just read, will, as someone said, 'never can be un-learned'. Stay tuned -- you have a ride ahead of you.