Okay,,, I correct my language, because I agree! I was being gender-negative ... You are just the kind of PERSON who doesn't get it.
And yes, you hear, but you don't listen,,,, you have damned yourself with your own words (and I don't mean it as harshly, in the religious connotation). We are conditioned to feel that it's 'not that bad',,, and I understand your lack of empathy.
I apologize for assuming it's your gender ... it's really a societal thing ... it's just so horrific,,, to THINK,, now REALLY THINK, about a child ,,, being raped, that something in our brain wants to deny its truth.
Did I want to make you feel bad? Yes! But not about yourself,,, I just want you to UNDERSTAND,, Steven is doing a 'good thing',, yes, he fucked up,, OKAY? But on the whole,,, he is doing a REALLY GOOD THING.
that's all,,, that's all I want you to understand.
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