To "strike when the iron is hot "is usually good in general in problem solving but when there is personal hurt not so much
Please (only if you must )just take a break... everything cools and commons down with a little space and time .
We humans are all different to some degree but mostly we all want understanding and love... we crave acceptance deep down.
I have a very special friend I chat with often.. but even though we both care... misunderstanding happens... hurt feelings
can make a person strike out in self-protection. At this point I try to remember love begets love.... hurt begets hurt
One of the most common causes of people fighting ceaselessly is misunderstandings. Misunderstandings tend to create so many problems between couples, friends and families. It is these very misunderstandings that can irreparably damage a relation.
I have learned that I can be hurt , but to avoid that part that would hurt my conscience forever more
Regardless of the issues or causes I pray peace, goodwill & happiness and for some measure of understanding for all those who have hurt each other !