Happy 12 years to JWN indeed ! I joined about 5 years ago in spring 2007 and although I had not attended meetings for 3 years at that time , even then I had no idea about the WT society child abuse scandals , or read " Crisis of Conscience " or any of Steve Hassan's books on mind control . This forum gave me access to that information and made me aware of things I needed to be made aware of to totally lose the mind control within myself ! Thanks so much Simon & Angharad , it's much appreciated what you do for this board. As a born-in JW who exited at age 44 over 8 years ago - this board has been a lifesaver for me - and assisted me to see that there are SO MANY of us in the same boat , moving on with a good life after exiting the Witnesses. We can pull each other up by our bootstrings - and this board has facillitated those connections beautifully