What happens if you prayed 99 times and only once didn't get an answer. (or have your request granted... lets never mind all the various interpretations of answers)
Well if you were working at it with the scientific method, and all variables are accounted for, the conclusion would be that prayer does not work. But it is not something that should be measured with science, necessarily, which is why it is tiring when people try to combine science with things that aren't part of the natural world---commonly know as pseudo-science, or at least one form of it.
But that's my point---prayer never fails in the minds of the believers. There is an explanation for every outcome, even though there is no shred of evidence. Frankly I'm happy to be rid of prayer---always looking outward for my strength, answers and guidance. It is one of the most disempowering things ever. Even looking at the posture of prayer (and I know it varies, and is not required, but most people assume some type of submissive stance) head down, eyes closed, maybe knees bent, hands clasped.
That is just no way to tackle the big problems. Chin needs to be up and fists clenched! And then, there is the mind game that follows when things simply don't improve. What did I do wrong? Why am I being subjected to this? What do i need to learn?
No. So glad to be rid of such a concept! Comparing to what I have accomplished without prayer as to what I accomplished with prayer, I get a lot more done now. I channel my energy much more effectively, and have a great deal more confidence in my ability to take on a challenge.
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